my worrying situation...divorce/child support/alimony questions

[nmstorm32]

Sigh...I do feel sorry for you, but mostly because you cannot seem to separate legality from morality. Morality is completely irrelevant to your divorce, custody and criminal cases, and legality is all that matters.

Everything that you are describing about your ex has to do with morality...because there is no proof of any illegal actions on her part, only immoral onces which don't matter in a divorce. On the other hand, there is strong evidence of your illegal and dangerous acts, therefore yours are completely relevant.

Sigh....I do understand the difference. I realize that the things that she did illegally were never brought up and that her moral issues will not have any real beaing on the outcome of this case. This thread has helped me come to terms with those facts. Much of what I'm doing now is just venting and expressing regret and remose on a public forum. I know it won't make any difference in my divorce and custody proceedings. Thank you though.