What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Missouri
Hello everyone,
I am posting this on behalf of a good friend mixed up in a bad situation.
She had a child with a man she never married and no longer loves who is very manipulative and abusive. He has totally destroyed her credit and made sure she has no money of her own. She desperately wants to leave him but every time she brings it up he tells her evil things like she'd never see her child again because he has more money and connections and would get full custody. This is naturally causing her to second guess herself and thus she continues to stay with him reluctantly.
Common sense tells me that custody of the child would be extremely easy for her to get since she is the one who takes care of her nearly full time while he is working (and let's face it judges favor the mothers), but it's not enough for me to simply tell her. I need you all to help us out please. Tell us what she needs to do to make 100% sure this all works out ok. I have strongly suggested tape recording his psychotic behavior when they fight to demonstrate his instability as well as reporting him to the authorities for the credit cards he illegally took out in her name, but she seems reluctant to put the father of her child in prison for obvious reasons. What steps need to be taken here?
Also, is there any free or cheap way for her to handle this? She cannot afford a lawyer. I read something elsewhere about a family court that you don't need a lawyer for to get custody? Anyone know anything about it?
Thank you very much for your help!
Hello everyone,
I am posting this on behalf of a good friend mixed up in a bad situation.
She had a child with a man she never married and no longer loves who is very manipulative and abusive. He has totally destroyed her credit and made sure she has no money of her own. She desperately wants to leave him but every time she brings it up he tells her evil things like she'd never see her child again because he has more money and connections and would get full custody. This is naturally causing her to second guess herself and thus she continues to stay with him reluctantly.
Common sense tells me that custody of the child would be extremely easy for her to get since she is the one who takes care of her nearly full time while he is working (and let's face it judges favor the mothers), but it's not enough for me to simply tell her. I need you all to help us out please. Tell us what she needs to do to make 100% sure this all works out ok. I have strongly suggested tape recording his psychotic behavior when they fight to demonstrate his instability as well as reporting him to the authorities for the credit cards he illegally took out in her name, but she seems reluctant to put the father of her child in prison for obvious reasons. What steps need to be taken here?
Also, is there any free or cheap way for her to handle this? She cannot afford a lawyer. I read something elsewhere about a family court that you don't need a lawyer for to get custody? Anyone know anything about it?
Thank you very much for your help!