Need help quick

[djr0987]

Wow....I found this website thinking it was for "legal advice"...instead it is full of peoplev who get off on putting people on the chopping block...!!!!!!! My god...I'm just asking what my rights are...I'm not asking for you opinion....I can get that anywhere...and as for "cereo19" or what ever the screen name is...get a life...who died and left you to judge...I am really sick of you...and I would bet you are some lonesome loser playing with yourself and telling everyone off....

 

[CdwJava]

Wow....I found this website thinking it was for "legal advice"...

Which you received.

You were advised of the possible ramifications of admitting to lying ... of the possible ramifications of perjury ... of the ramifications of allowing him to remain in the home ... if you wanted someone to hold your hand and give you a pat on the back saying that all you want to do is have him counseled, you came to the wrong place because that is not what happens in DV arrests.

You call the cops, they get involved, and people go to jail. They are not family therapists or there to scare your spouse when you disagree. They are also not there to raise your kids (sorry ... pet peeve of mine ... too many calls of "My 8-year-old is out of control" ... ugh).

My god...I'm just asking what my rights are.

As you were told: Do not lie, and consult an attorney before you take the stand to confess to a criminal act (perjury or making a false police report). Other than that, you have no real options as the state is the one prosecuting the case - not you. You can certainly call the DA, but as I said the DA's office expects you to call and recant.


- Carl

 

[AHA]

Wow....I found this website thinking it was for "legal advice"...instead it is full of peoplev who get off on putting people on the chopping block...!!!!!!! My god...I'm just asking what my rights are...I'm not asking for you opinion....I can get that anywhere...and as for "cereo19" or what ever the screen name is...get a life...who died and left you to judge...I am really sick of you...and I would bet you are some lonesome loser playing with yourself and telling everyone off....

Just get yourself a lawyer and tell him/her the whole story, since we are getting bits and pieces that are not looking to good for you, and find out what your chances are.

 

[JETX]

I'm just asking what my rights are.

No you're not!!!
You got SEVERAL posts with absolutely valid advice.
Then, you started playing 'what if' scenarios, clearly with the intent to test out your possible lies and/or perjury to see if 'we' thought they would work.
"What if I told you...I wasn't totally honest with the police...I started the whole thing...I made it out to be all his fault because I was mad and wanted them to make him leave."
"What if I told you that is what an attorney told me to say...??"

That was when this thread went against you.... when it was clear that you weren't interested in hearing, or telling, the truth.

 

[ceara19]

Wow....I found this website thinking it was for "legal advice"...instead it is full of peoplev who get off on putting people on the chopping block...!!!!!!! My god...I'm just asking what my rights are...I'm not asking for you opinion....I can get that anywhere...and as for "cereo19" or what ever the screen name is...get a life...who died and left you to judge...I am really sick of you...and I would bet you are some lonesome loser playing with yourself and telling everyone off....

I have a very full, active and PRODUCTIVE life. I would advise YOU find something better to do with YOUR life then making false reports to the police and having people wrongfully arrested, but I'm sure that a judge will be helping you fill your days soon.