What is the name of your state? Ky I have a question. My boyfriends ex-girlfriend lost custody of her oldest kid by a different guy and she told my b/f that is was because she was getting state asst. in KS (where she was staying) from MO (where she said she was living). She would go pick it up. And I told him I dont think that they would take her away for just that. And he said that it was also do to her ex and his mom knowing the "right" people. And I told it I dont think that matters . That a judge wouldnt take a child away from the mother unless she was proven unfit. Am I right in this ? The reason I am asking is because she told him that she left him (their 2 yr old son) in his room in the apartment while she ran down stairs (2 floors) and outside to check the mail. And I told him he needs to have something done but he said that it would be her word against his, even though she told him. And he is suppost to pay child support through the state but she finds out when he gets paid and she calls him saying "ur son needs this and he needs that" and that dont bother me its just he has to give her the money right then and he sends it western union, and his back child support is adding up from where its not going through the court . Can he take his stubs from western union to the court house and show them and it be taken off of the back pay?