nythng4mygrl
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? LA
I just read a thread about filing for No 3rd Part Interference. I have court coming up in January and wanted to ask a few questions. Please see pieces of my judgment for reference:
1. Dad to continue random drug testing once per month along with myself.
2. visitation scheduled as previously, however if dad has to work during his custodial
period, stemom may care for minor child.
3. dad personally write child support checks and deliver to me personally whether in
person or by regular mail.
4. parties are to deal directly with each other regarding health, safety, education and
well being of minor chld. The parties' spouses/significant others are not to interfere in
the parenting process or speak for the other parent. the parties should deal directly
with each other on all issues concerning the child.
5. absolutely no smoking of any kind whether outside, inside, in the car or anywhere in
the presence of minor child.
Dad has missed 10 drug screens out of 11, has not had a job in the last 2 years and continuous leaves daughter with stepmom alone. Stepmom deposits my child support (which I know is helping, but I want to lay it all out there with ALL contempt issues). Dad has yet to return 1 phone call of mine or text message since our last court appearance in Jan. I have emailed him, and stepmom intercepts the messages and responds for him. She uses "us" and "we" in her emails to me about "MY" daughter as to what she can wear, how she is disciplined, when "they" will meet me at social functions concerning my daughteretc... Why can't HE text me or call me???
There is a "No Coporal Punishment" clause in our judgment, and stepmom is said to be spanking my daughter when dad is not around, and she is very demeaning to my daughter when dad is not around. All I can do is continue to encourage her to go over, when I really would like to grab stepmom by the hair and show her what it's like to be whipped.
I continuously try to talk to him, and he will not return my calls, or text messages. If I email him, I am really emailing the wife. The wife has put pics of my daughter on her myspace and captioned them as "my beautiful daughter", "My beautiful daughter at dance recital", "My beautiful daughter at karate", and clearly a picture of stepmom, with caption under it "ME". She has registered my daughter as hers last summer, and summer prior, she has left me off of CONTACT lists with each recreation center, and my daughter told me that she is introduced as stepmom's daughter when friends are over. She wanted to know why she had 2 mommies, and that came out. She had sent out an email to all of HER friends regarding an online fundraiser for MY daughter that I was proactively involved in.
Dad tells me his cell is broken when giving his sorry excuses for not contacting me and advises me to text stepmom, or call her when I need him. I text her, asking her to have him call me like he asked, and she wants to know what is going on. I don't say anything to her except that I would prefer to speak to him personally, and then get an email from "him" wanting to know what I want. I want HIM to call me to talk about our daughter, not a stupid email at 5:30 in the evening. I have pics of him smoking with my daughter in his arms after her karate tournament, and she has severe bronchial asthma. How do I remove stepmom out of the equation???
This is getting ridiculous and I am at a loss for words at this point. I would like to submit my correspondence to attorney without getting emotional, and would really like any advice you can possibly give. We have been in front of the judge previously, and they were slapped, so I am really hoping that they won't get slapped this go round.
Thanks
I just read a thread about filing for No 3rd Part Interference. I have court coming up in January and wanted to ask a few questions. Please see pieces of my judgment for reference:
1. Dad to continue random drug testing once per month along with myself.
2. visitation scheduled as previously, however if dad has to work during his custodial
period, stemom may care for minor child.
3. dad personally write child support checks and deliver to me personally whether in
person or by regular mail.
4. parties are to deal directly with each other regarding health, safety, education and
well being of minor chld. The parties' spouses/significant others are not to interfere in
the parenting process or speak for the other parent. the parties should deal directly
with each other on all issues concerning the child.
5. absolutely no smoking of any kind whether outside, inside, in the car or anywhere in
the presence of minor child.
Dad has missed 10 drug screens out of 11, has not had a job in the last 2 years and continuous leaves daughter with stepmom alone. Stepmom deposits my child support (which I know is helping, but I want to lay it all out there with ALL contempt issues). Dad has yet to return 1 phone call of mine or text message since our last court appearance in Jan. I have emailed him, and stepmom intercepts the messages and responds for him. She uses "us" and "we" in her emails to me about "MY" daughter as to what she can wear, how she is disciplined, when "they" will meet me at social functions concerning my daughteretc... Why can't HE text me or call me???
There is a "No Coporal Punishment" clause in our judgment, and stepmom is said to be spanking my daughter when dad is not around, and she is very demeaning to my daughter when dad is not around. All I can do is continue to encourage her to go over, when I really would like to grab stepmom by the hair and show her what it's like to be whipped.
I continuously try to talk to him, and he will not return my calls, or text messages. If I email him, I am really emailing the wife. The wife has put pics of my daughter on her myspace and captioned them as "my beautiful daughter", "My beautiful daughter at dance recital", "My beautiful daughter at karate", and clearly a picture of stepmom, with caption under it "ME". She has registered my daughter as hers last summer, and summer prior, she has left me off of CONTACT lists with each recreation center, and my daughter told me that she is introduced as stepmom's daughter when friends are over. She wanted to know why she had 2 mommies, and that came out. She had sent out an email to all of HER friends regarding an online fundraiser for MY daughter that I was proactively involved in.
Dad tells me his cell is broken when giving his sorry excuses for not contacting me and advises me to text stepmom, or call her when I need him. I text her, asking her to have him call me like he asked, and she wants to know what is going on. I don't say anything to her except that I would prefer to speak to him personally, and then get an email from "him" wanting to know what I want. I want HIM to call me to talk about our daughter, not a stupid email at 5:30 in the evening. I have pics of him smoking with my daughter in his arms after her karate tournament, and she has severe bronchial asthma. How do I remove stepmom out of the equation???
This is getting ridiculous and I am at a loss for words at this point. I would like to submit my correspondence to attorney without getting emotional, and would really like any advice you can possibly give. We have been in front of the judge previously, and they were slapped, so I am really hoping that they won't get slapped this go round.
Thanks
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