I have not filed anything with court to make it legal- I just went to court yesterday - ( i hired an attorney so, I could get a warrant taken care of to modify child support order ) because they were try'n to put me in jail ( 180 days) for me being in the rears and I had a warrant for contempt of court for missing a court date in 2010 for child support- the Judge dropped my warrant ( he wasn't happy but, he did it ),dropped current child support ,and dropped jail time - (i just need to pay all back child support -) cause I have been paying weekly for a good period of time - even tho I am way behind- and most importantly I have had custody of our son- it's taken me some time to get to court cause it's hard to pay 154.00 a week and pay for everything for our son- she is not helping and she got in trouble with CPS for drug use ( not first time ) and I feel all I am doing is buying her dope for her- now that this part is taken care of- I have to figure a way to become Custodial Parent but, I can't keep paying for attorney cause I just can't affort this and I want to file for child support from her- this is possible ?