Not domestic abuse I don't think, but didn't know where to post..

[yuppicide]

I understand moving out is probably the best course of action, but if her Daughter wasn't around things would be fine. We only have another year before she's 18 and we can move into a smaller (hopefully cheaper) apartment.

I look at it sort of the way my relationship was with my Mother, and some of my friends had the same as me. You're always fighting or arguing, clean this, do that, etc.. but once you move out your relationship gets better because your Mother is not constantly breathing down your neck.

 

[creepyfreak9]

I am the ex girlfriend

Happy to report yuppicide no longer lives with me...he now has a much younger girlfriend he left me for. If you read his posts you will understand that this guy has mental issues and it now makes sense why my daughter was very defensive. I wouldn't be suprised knowing what I know now that he may have been the abuser all along and may have been even trying to not only mentally abuse my daughter but maybe physically. He put holes in the doors/walls over the coarse of our relationship, not to mention a few times picked up the dog and threw him. I wanted this to end but dealing with an emotionally disturbed person is not easy. He took all of my money and sold some of my daughters and my possessions. If he had a tantrum he would throw things or throw them out for no reason. I have to admit I was afraid of him and am much happier that I no longer have to deal with him. I am only responding to this post to let other victims know that reguardless if you love someone, it just isn't worth ruining your life over.

 

[st-kitts]

Happy to report yuppicide no longer lives with me...he now has a much younger girlfriend he left me for. If you read his posts you will understand that this guy has mental issues and it now makes sense why my daughter was very defensive. I wouldn't be suprised knowing what I know now that he may have been the abuser all along and may have been even trying to not only mentally abuse my daughter but maybe physically. He put holes in the doors/walls over the coarse of our relationship, not to mention a few times picked up the dog and threw him. I wanted this to end but dealing with an emotionally disturbed person is not easy. He took all of my money and sold some of my daughters and my possessions. If he had a tantrum he would throw things or throw them out for no reason. I have to admit I was afraid of him and am much happier that I no longer have to deal with him. I am only responding to this post to let other victims know that reguardless if you love someone, it just isn't worth ruining your life over.

I love updates... thanks for checking in with yuppicide's outcome.

good luck

 

[OHRoadwarrior]

I knew he was the problem. Good luck in your future.