ILOVEMYGSM3
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What is the name of your state? ca...usn
as i've stated, and my roomate, his situtaion with his wife...he finally got the statement he needed to give dfas after i typed it last night, so he signed it this morning and sent it with his waiver and proof and USMC legal recomendation on support...well, it appears a custody case cannot be opened in ANY state, as there is a divorce case already in effect here in cali...mom(ex) will not send a BC for child, and it has been shown there is absolutely nothing in effect stating their child is actually his...now, we do know she has state medical on the baby...since there is currently no way to prove paternity(she says, he says, but theres no proof of anything right now)and we're pretty sure he wont be able to see the child this summer to do a home dna test(yes w/court admissible papers)...
i guess the messed up question we have is, although he cannot remover HER from tricare w/o divorce papers, since there is not proof the child is his, can he remove the child from tricare, and Page 2(until paternity proof is obtained)? and if it is his child, just re-add him?
this is not something he is seriously considering, however, he's at his wits end trying to figure this crap out, and the command is all about shutting her up, versus helping their sailor out...they spend more time braggin about his work(yet threatening him w/ nonsupport and alleged adultery charges) than they do about learning the facts...(i thought they'd at least do that, but apparently not, and theres even some 1 where he works who used to live with him and his wife, and can verify the acts he states of her...) also, since she is using the legal at the base where she lives(it is navy) and he may be moving back there this december(possibly due to pcs)can he consult another legal aid at another local base or not?
as i've stated, and my roomate, his situtaion with his wife...he finally got the statement he needed to give dfas after i typed it last night, so he signed it this morning and sent it with his waiver and proof and USMC legal recomendation on support...well, it appears a custody case cannot be opened in ANY state, as there is a divorce case already in effect here in cali...mom(ex) will not send a BC for child, and it has been shown there is absolutely nothing in effect stating their child is actually his...now, we do know she has state medical on the baby...since there is currently no way to prove paternity(she says, he says, but theres no proof of anything right now)and we're pretty sure he wont be able to see the child this summer to do a home dna test(yes w/court admissible papers)...
i guess the messed up question we have is, although he cannot remover HER from tricare w/o divorce papers, since there is not proof the child is his, can he remove the child from tricare, and Page 2(until paternity proof is obtained)? and if it is his child, just re-add him?
this is not something he is seriously considering, however, he's at his wits end trying to figure this crap out, and the command is all about shutting her up, versus helping their sailor out...they spend more time braggin about his work(yet threatening him w/ nonsupport and alleged adultery charges) than they do about learning the facts...(i thought they'd at least do that, but apparently not, and theres even some 1 where he works who used to live with him and his wife, and can verify the acts he states of her...) also, since she is using the legal at the base where she lives(it is navy) and he may be moving back there this december(possibly due to pcs)can he consult another legal aid at another local base or not?