ODD situation. Debt said to owe to FAMILY member.

[Proserpina]

In one respect I find this thread very interesting.

Generally most people on this forum tell posters that they have no choice but to do exactly what their parents tell them to do when they are minors.

Yet, in this thread several people are dissing the OP because he did not refuse the gift from his father and refuse to make the payments on said gift, when he was a minor.

And Pro...if my dad had been boffing one of my best friends, and started it when my best friend was a minor, I would have been totally devastated and would have disowned my father as well.

It's a convenient excuse for poor behaviour.

Nothing more, nothing less.