"Whatever"? How old are you, twelve? Again with the threat. How have I violated any terms of my membership on this site? Most of you argue like children. If I stop hanging around it will be because you are all so boring with your threats and attempts at insults.
People argue in courtrooms. I have simply given case examples that point to the fact
that just because the law says so, doesn't automatically mean it will be so.
My advice to the poster is simply yes, Ohio law states that you would get the child in the event of mothers death.
However I would take additional steps to see that there were as few problems as possible in making that transition for the child, which is in the best interest of the child.