gr8beauty1
Junior Member
Wisconsin
So i dont get out much at all and when I do i like to have fun, Got dressed up. went out. i was dancing a lot, talking to people, flirting..this guy says to me, my friend thinks your beautiful but hes really shy. will you talk to him or dance with him or something? so im talking with him, laughing, dancing, and he decides to strt rubbing my crotch. i get mad and walk away and telling the bouncer (who was only 5ft away) and he tells me the guy does this all the time when he gets drunk and dont worry about it. hes the owner of the bar. so i said fine, just dont let him near me because im pissed as all hell. The owners friend comes up to me and asks whats wrong. hes tells me the same thing. that he always does stuff like this and just leave it alone and the owners leaving anyway. instead tey just took him to the other side of the bar...so the bouncer and his friend start buying me and my friend flowers. we are all just talking. they are trying to put me in a better mood, which happened. Then the owner tries to come up and hug me. from that point i went off. he was like do you know who i am? i own this place. lots of words were exchanged back and forth. he got in my face like he was going to hit me, and a girl that worked there pulled him back. she comes up to me and tells me he ownx the place and i need to leave. at that point, i called the police. they basically acted like i made the whole thing up. they told the bouncer (who said he doesnt care if its his boss, what he did was messed up and he wanted to let the cops know) that its none of his business and he needs to stay out of it. they told my friend who was there to leave and didnt get any statement from her. they kept me in the back of the squad for 3 hours and wouldnt let me out or b on the phone or anything. they come out and tell me theres a tape and they see me laughing nd dancing with him. and they see the confrontation, but because of the angle cant see him touching me at all. they also say that all of the witnesses say they didnt see anything, but of course they are his friends (obviously they should be able to see on the tape me mad and his friends trying to calm me down). and like i said they wouldnt question absolutely anyone that was with me, or even the bouncer that works there. anyway, i find out today the owner is an ex cop and knows the cops that were there? would this just be a huge drawn out long mess for me to do anything about?
So i dont get out much at all and when I do i like to have fun, Got dressed up. went out. i was dancing a lot, talking to people, flirting..this guy says to me, my friend thinks your beautiful but hes really shy. will you talk to him or dance with him or something? so im talking with him, laughing, dancing, and he decides to strt rubbing my crotch. i get mad and walk away and telling the bouncer (who was only 5ft away) and he tells me the guy does this all the time when he gets drunk and dont worry about it. hes the owner of the bar. so i said fine, just dont let him near me because im pissed as all hell. The owners friend comes up to me and asks whats wrong. hes tells me the same thing. that he always does stuff like this and just leave it alone and the owners leaving anyway. instead tey just took him to the other side of the bar...so the bouncer and his friend start buying me and my friend flowers. we are all just talking. they are trying to put me in a better mood, which happened. Then the owner tries to come up and hug me. from that point i went off. he was like do you know who i am? i own this place. lots of words were exchanged back and forth. he got in my face like he was going to hit me, and a girl that worked there pulled him back. she comes up to me and tells me he ownx the place and i need to leave. at that point, i called the police. they basically acted like i made the whole thing up. they told the bouncer (who said he doesnt care if its his boss, what he did was messed up and he wanted to let the cops know) that its none of his business and he needs to stay out of it. they told my friend who was there to leave and didnt get any statement from her. they kept me in the back of the squad for 3 hours and wouldnt let me out or b on the phone or anything. they come out and tell me theres a tape and they see me laughing nd dancing with him. and they see the confrontation, but because of the angle cant see him touching me at all. they also say that all of the witnesses say they didnt see anything, but of course they are his friends (obviously they should be able to see on the tape me mad and his friends trying to calm me down). and like i said they wouldnt question absolutely anyone that was with me, or even the bouncer that works there. anyway, i find out today the owner is an ex cop and knows the cops that were there? would this just be a huge drawn out long mess for me to do anything about?