What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? IN (Indianapolis)
I'm new to all of this. My ex-girlfriend recently lost/gave physical custody of our 3 year old to me. She wanted to move out of Indy to Madison, Wisconsin so I disputed the move. She was given the choice to stay in Indy and keep custody or leave and relinquish custody to myself. She chose the latter and I now have physical custody and joint legal (still).
I did this pro se, so I don't have a lawyer I can ask about this. They didn't set up a visitation schedule while we were there (idk why though), so I guess it's up to myself and my child's mother to figure that out? So I guess my question is if you all could tell me if what I came up with is fair. I know she doesn't have to agree to anything I come up with and vice versa, but I want to be fair and have something reasonable before I present it with her.
I came up with a couple different options.
Here's option 1:
Mother will have the child from 6pm on Friday until 6pm the following Sunday, on the first and third weekends of the month.
Mother will have holidays on even years, father on odd.
Mother will have the child for 3 non-consecutive weeks during the summer.
Option 2:
Mother will have the child from 6pm on Friday until 6pm on the following Tuesday, the first weekend of every month.
Mother will have holidays on even years, father on odd.
Mother will have the child for 2 non-consecutive 10 day periods during the summer, seperated by at least 2 weeks.
Option 3:
Mother will have the child from 6pm on Friday until 6pm the following Friday, the first Friday of the month. This would be every other month. Then the months she doesn't have the child for a week she will have him one weekend, from Friday at 6p - Sunday at 6p.
Mother will have holidays on even years, father on odd.
Mother will have the child for 2 consecutive weeks during the summer.
Any thoughts? She hasn't told me what visitation she expects so I'm not sure how much/little she is going to be asking for. But I wanted to be prepared with suggestions.
I'm new to all of this. My ex-girlfriend recently lost/gave physical custody of our 3 year old to me. She wanted to move out of Indy to Madison, Wisconsin so I disputed the move. She was given the choice to stay in Indy and keep custody or leave and relinquish custody to myself. She chose the latter and I now have physical custody and joint legal (still).
I did this pro se, so I don't have a lawyer I can ask about this. They didn't set up a visitation schedule while we were there (idk why though), so I guess it's up to myself and my child's mother to figure that out? So I guess my question is if you all could tell me if what I came up with is fair. I know she doesn't have to agree to anything I come up with and vice versa, but I want to be fair and have something reasonable before I present it with her.
I came up with a couple different options.
Here's option 1:
Mother will have the child from 6pm on Friday until 6pm the following Sunday, on the first and third weekends of the month.
Mother will have holidays on even years, father on odd.
Mother will have the child for 3 non-consecutive weeks during the summer.
Option 2:
Mother will have the child from 6pm on Friday until 6pm on the following Tuesday, the first weekend of every month.
Mother will have holidays on even years, father on odd.
Mother will have the child for 2 non-consecutive 10 day periods during the summer, seperated by at least 2 weeks.
Option 3:
Mother will have the child from 6pm on Friday until 6pm the following Friday, the first Friday of the month. This would be every other month. Then the months she doesn't have the child for a week she will have him one weekend, from Friday at 6p - Sunday at 6p.
Mother will have holidays on even years, father on odd.
Mother will have the child for 2 consecutive weeks during the summer.
Any thoughts? She hasn't told me what visitation she expects so I'm not sure how much/little she is going to be asking for. But I wanted to be prepared with suggestions.