cjohnson0922
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Missouri
My Ex boyfriend and I split apart after 6 years together and 1 daughter. We split because we could never figure out how to get along and many times the fights were verbally or physically abusive and January was the last time he would put hands on me. The father of our daughter has filed a paternity action since we were never married. The pre-trial meeting is set for Sept. Do I have the legal right to make my own schedule if we currently can not come to an agreement? We have been doing 50/50 for the most part, but communication with him about our daughter is non existent. I have tried to get him to focus just on her, but ever single conversation results in arguments and past events. I feel as if this is placing her right in the middle of us and not sure what I should do or what my legal boundaries are? He has a lawyer and I do not. At first it seemed as though we could work this out and come up with arrangements and I do not have money for a lawyer. I have been left with all the responsibilities of paying for our daughter and have all the bills now that were once split. In the papers that were sent he has filed for joint custody with me as primary physical custody. Do i have the right to request that it not be 50/50 since we can not communicate effectively about our daughter and concerned when she starts Kindergarten next year and he lives 30-40 min away from school and starts work at 6AM? What can I do to show my concerns to the judge?
My Ex boyfriend and I split apart after 6 years together and 1 daughter. We split because we could never figure out how to get along and many times the fights were verbally or physically abusive and January was the last time he would put hands on me. The father of our daughter has filed a paternity action since we were never married. The pre-trial meeting is set for Sept. Do I have the legal right to make my own schedule if we currently can not come to an agreement? We have been doing 50/50 for the most part, but communication with him about our daughter is non existent. I have tried to get him to focus just on her, but ever single conversation results in arguments and past events. I feel as if this is placing her right in the middle of us and not sure what I should do or what my legal boundaries are? He has a lawyer and I do not. At first it seemed as though we could work this out and come up with arrangements and I do not have money for a lawyer. I have been left with all the responsibilities of paying for our daughter and have all the bills now that were once split. In the papers that were sent he has filed for joint custody with me as primary physical custody. Do i have the right to request that it not be 50/50 since we can not communicate effectively about our daughter and concerned when she starts Kindergarten next year and he lives 30-40 min away from school and starts work at 6AM? What can I do to show my concerns to the judge?