paternity post adoption

[confused_hound]

no folks
I'm not a monster like you folks think I am
I have great loving parents and I'm so thankful for them.
I love them dearly and wouldn't nullify the adoption
even if I could.

But wasn't it nice to dream of those millions
that could have been ?????

oh and pink condos?? not a chance
a farm house with a white picket fence
is my speed

lol, have a great day
and thanks to all who posted

I'll leave you folks alone now
so ya'll can go help that nice lady who has the
problem with not wanting to give up her baby
now that her and her husband are doing good financially again.
best wishes to all
God Bless

 

[ariastar]

49 years ago my grandmother had an affair with a married man. My mother was conceived. That married man not only knew about my mother, but he fought for custody, and his wife was willing to raise my mother. My grandmother was an unwed 18-year-old with another child already with an unknown father. My mother was born in a state mental hospital after my grandmother tried and failed to abort her three times.

Well, the Tender Years Doctrine was used to keep my mother with her mother. Technically it ended up my mother was with her own grandmother until her mother was released from the mental hospital a year and a half later. And because the father was already married, rather than order support, he was ordered no contact with my grandmother. My grandfather was willing to support my grandmother to keep my mother safe, and instead he wasn't allowed contact or to send money.

According to the records I did manage to get my hands on, thanks to the TYC, grandma was given custody as a child ALWAYS needs to be with the mother during the "tender years," no matter what, and the judge attempted to preserve the family unit of her father, his wife, and their four sons.

Do you see what I'm getting at? Even if your birth mother had told your alleged birth father, due to the laws at the time with him being married and already having children with that wife, he might not have had any legal standing anyway. Your birth mother still could have adopted you out.

Your adoption isn't recent. Your "attorney" (by the way, an attorney operating out of his trunk ain't real, Honey) needs to research the laws from 46 years ago. Laws today don't apply to when you were born. You are being vindictive because you want money.

You have no claim. Let it go. Be glad you had two adoptive parents who loved you. So many kids these days are lucky to have one parent. You had two loving parents and a home. You were fortunate beyond belief.

 

[ariastar]

no folks
I'm not a monster like you folks think I am
I have great loving parents and I'm so thankful for them.
I love them dearly and wouldn't nullify the adoption
even if I could.

But wasn't it nice to dream of those millions
that could have been ?????

oh and pink condos?? not a chance
a farm house with a white picket fence
is my speed

lol, have a great day
and thanks to all who posted

I'll leave you folks alone now
so ya'll can go help that nice lady who has the
problem with not wanting to give up her baby
now that her and her husband are doing good financially again.
best wishes to all
God Bless

You're a monster for only wanting money from this man rather than a relationship. You're a monster for being willing to tear his life apart for those millions that were never yours to begin with. You're a monster for not being satisfied with the life your REAL parents, the ones who loved and raised you gave you.

 

[Proserpina]

the SOL only applies when exceptions are not encountered.
fraud makes it an exception

Which you do not have.

(and the bar number for this attorney who gave you erroneous information is**************.?)

 

[confused_hound]

just to clarify

my biological father whom we have discussed here this afternoon

INVENTED and holds the PATENT on the
4-stroke combustible engine used on every large
Harley Davidson motorcycle in the last 3 decades.
So he gets a chunk of change every time one rolls
off the assembly line. Not counting all the licensing
worldwide on other brands of motorcycles and boat
motors that use the same style of engine. So tell me
that wouldn't put dollar signs in anyone's eyes?? including yours??
I mean we're talking multi-millions of dollars here

lol

at least that's what I've been told
who knows .... maybe she lied to me .....

matter of fact, I was conceived on the seat
of that motorcycle engine prototype when it was being
developed. Maybe I was lied to about that too
But that is what my biological mother claimed
I was the product of a Saturday afternoon motorcycle ride.

now u know **************
the rest of the story ...... lol