About a year ago my elderly mother's heart was racing, so my sister took her to the e.r. They scanned her heart by putting a tube down her throat. The scan results were negative, though in removing the tube they tore her esophagus. She then had to be put on a feeding tube because you can't eat normally until you are healed. She was on the feeding tube for 6 months, a couple at the hospital, then 4 months at home where myself and 2 sisters learned how to manage a feeding tube, and essentially take care of her like a nurse would.
This was very traumatic for the family, a friend in healthcare said we should look in to suing. However, my mother is 89, and absolutely does not want to testify in court. She wouldnt have much to offer in court any way, since shes not knowledgeable of the technical aspects of what happened. One odd thing, when my sister was visiting her at the hospital, she overheard a conversation between the doctor who made the mistake and a nurse. The nurse asked the doctor, "what happened, this is a standard procedure?'. The doctor said "i had to intubate twice and go in the back door." I don't know what that means and cant find that phrase online to get a meaning for it.
So, my questions are, is it ridiculous to think we could take them to court and not have mom testify? Also, I need to find out what the phrase the doctor said means so if anyone knows please share. Thank you for any feedback.
This was very traumatic for the family, a friend in healthcare said we should look in to suing. However, my mother is 89, and absolutely does not want to testify in court. She wouldnt have much to offer in court any way, since shes not knowledgeable of the technical aspects of what happened. One odd thing, when my sister was visiting her at the hospital, she overheard a conversation between the doctor who made the mistake and a nurse. The nurse asked the doctor, "what happened, this is a standard procedure?'. The doctor said "i had to intubate twice and go in the back door." I don't know what that means and cant find that phrase online to get a meaning for it.
So, my questions are, is it ridiculous to think we could take them to court and not have mom testify? Also, I need to find out what the phrase the doctor said means so if anyone knows please share. Thank you for any feedback.