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PA Schwhi
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Oklahoma -
January 2001 I married a widower who has two grown stepchildren. They hold much animosity toward me and have before they even met me which he is totally aware of. When we married I moved into his house but did not sell mine.
The problem is we are drafting new wills. My husband is totally comfortable in the role I asked him to have as my representative and disposing of my home and property and my wishes towards such. On the other hand all I asked of him was to put in his will basically that I have 30 days to pack and leave if something happens to him. (I believe the door would be barred to me before I returned from the services...although I keep those feelings to myself since he knows how things are). He says he wants to put in the will that everything will be split in thirds including the house and then they could not order me out until I got good and ready to leave. I proceeded to try to tell him this would only cause more problems and please just put the "30 day" clause in. He refuses to have it this way. Any suggestions???
January 2001 I married a widower who has two grown stepchildren. They hold much animosity toward me and have before they even met me which he is totally aware of. When we married I moved into his house but did not sell mine.
The problem is we are drafting new wills. My husband is totally comfortable in the role I asked him to have as my representative and disposing of my home and property and my wishes towards such. On the other hand all I asked of him was to put in his will basically that I have 30 days to pack and leave if something happens to him. (I believe the door would be barred to me before I returned from the services...although I keep those feelings to myself since he knows how things are). He says he wants to put in the will that everything will be split in thirds including the house and then they could not order me out until I got good and ready to leave. I proceeded to try to tell him this would only cause more problems and please just put the "30 day" clause in. He refuses to have it this way. Any suggestions???