I e-mailed my ex-wife that my summer visitation with my son will be from 6/27 - 8/7. I live in OH & she is in AL. We have to split the transportation 50/50. I told her that if she would allow me to have my son for 12 wks instead of 6 wks. I would do 75% of the transportation and include Christmas visitation in those 12 wks.
My ex e-mailed back stating that she is pregnant & due 9/6. She states that her dr. won't allow her to travel at all. She said she will allow an extra 3 wks. visitation which would include Christmas if I do 75% of the transportation & her mother will do 25%. She won't allow 6 extra wks because she wants my son to be there when her baby is born. She says that's the only way it will work.
I am willing to settle for 3 wks extra only if I did 50% of the transportation, which she won't agree on.
If she refuses to do 50% of the transportation because she is pregnant or get someone else to do it, what can I do? Two yrs. ago she refused visitation after I'd driven to AL & the magistrate gave her a slap on the wrist. I'm afraid that if I just tell her that I'll be down to pick my son up & she can get him at the end that she'll refuse to give him to me. Then, if I go back to court, I'm afraid the magistrate will say I was wrong because I wouldn't do what she wanted because she's pregnant & has a dr. excuse not to travel.
My ex e-mailed back stating that she is pregnant & due 9/6. She states that her dr. won't allow her to travel at all. She said she will allow an extra 3 wks. visitation which would include Christmas if I do 75% of the transportation & her mother will do 25%. She won't allow 6 extra wks because she wants my son to be there when her baby is born. She says that's the only way it will work.
I am willing to settle for 3 wks extra only if I did 50% of the transportation, which she won't agree on.
If she refuses to do 50% of the transportation because she is pregnant or get someone else to do it, what can I do? Two yrs. ago she refused visitation after I'd driven to AL & the magistrate gave her a slap on the wrist. I'm afraid that if I just tell her that I'll be down to pick my son up & she can get him at the end that she'll refuse to give him to me. Then, if I go back to court, I'm afraid the magistrate will say I was wrong because I wouldn't do what she wanted because she's pregnant & has a dr. excuse not to travel.