Well, I had breakfast with the daughter at Dunkin Donuts this morning. I passed on all your information. She said 'My brother can't move into the first floor because we have to get rent and he never paid rent'. I said 'I understand that but LEGALLY he can move into the first floor with his wife", but he is also responsible for contributing his 1/4 share into the house by providing his share for expenses, that is heating, taxes, electricity for the first floor and basement, things that your mom has been doing but now that she has passed, it falls on the 4 of you INCLUDING YOUR BROTHER"
The daughter then said "Then what do I do if he moves into the first floor, how do we get him out, what do we do?"
I then said "Well, I would consult an attorney now and see what your options will be AFTER your mom passes". I then also explained that all 4 of you are entitled to 1/4 of the rent. She said 'That is absolutely ridiculous, ,how on earth can you pay the 4 of us rent?"
I said 'Well, one of you will designate who hands this and I'll mail you a check because you won't be living downstairs from me anymore, you will have moved out the day after your mom's funeral right?"
She said "of course, because I can't live in the same house as my brother, he scares me"
I said "You can do a partition (wasn't sure how to explain this), by which the 3 of you get together and if your brother won't sell, it goes to court who will force a sale and divide the proceeds among the 4 of you BUT THIS TAKES A LONG TIME.
She looked at me and said 'OMG, I'm screwed aren't I". I said 'Your mother told your brother what she did and he knows he's getting 1/4?"" She said 'Yes she told him and he went absolutely nuts and said "I'M NOT HAVING ANY OF THIS, I'M ENTITLED TO HALF THIS HOUSE"
I then told the daughter exactly what you said that he has to accept it. I also told her his only option in fighting this is to try and have the old lady declared incompetent when she had this transfer deed drawn up but that's impossible to do because she has passed on, so your brother is stuck with the 1/4 but he can legally occupy the first floor.
See they want to keep the house, rent out the first floor, keep the guy in the basement (even if he doesn't pay any share). They will actually do this because if they rent out the first floor (together with my rent), they can pay the expenses of the house.
She just wants to know exactly what she should do if the guy moves into the first floor, announces "I'm not paying my share of anything, I don't have any money, my father said I should live here, it's my right to live here (with his wife), and that's it'
But the way, the wife (even though she works) gets medicaid and food stamps.
Let's say the old gal passes, the son moves up to the first floor, (he already pays the cable for the first floor and basement), but he now has the electricity and utilities to pay for right. What if he shouts "I don't have any money for utilities, you others have to pay for it but I'm going to live on the first floor"
What options do the other 3 have in order to get this guy to pay his share. The wife works so they MUST have SOME money. But they have had 3 cars repossessed and they have had the cable shut off many times because they don't pay their bills. I told the daughter. The wife of this guy has been working for 20 years and pays no rent. WHERE IS THEIR MONEY? Why are the cars repossessed, why has the cable been turned off and then she has all excuses, "IT'S A MISTAKE, WE PAID THE BILL", etc.
Nonsense. I've been there when their cars have been towed out of the driveway and the son goes after the towing company yelling in the streets "Bring back my car" Of course they never get it back and months go by and they get another car. Been doing this for years.
I think he's a parasite who lives off his wife (who pays the cable, food, gas, etc.) The guy has no money coming in.
So if you can at least give my friend a bit if info of what the remainder 3 can do (just in case this parasite and his wife move into the first floor but contribute NOTHING). Do they call the lawyer, do they call the police (I don't think so). What do they do?
I can't imagine the confliction this is going to become. I just told her "When your mom passes, and if your brother and his wife move up into the apartment after you vacate it, and the **** hits the fan, I'm going to just stay away from him, and mail you the check for the rent and you can do what you want with it." because until I get a registered letter indicating WHO I am to pay the rent to, I will just mail you a check. She said "that's fine" Even though she's not supposed to get all the money, I am not just going to be mailing 4 checks out. If I'm told divide the check into 4 payments, then of course I'll do that. But legally aren't I supposed to be informed of this?
What the hell would I do without all your help, I have no idea.
Thanks my dear
And my name is Melody by the way.
Merry Christmas
OH, ONE MORE IMPORTANT QUESTION. Right now, who has the right to sell the house? The 82 year old or the 4 owners. The daughter just asked me this and I said "Well, the 82 year old transferred the deed, she is no longer on the house so she has no say if it's sold or not sold, all the 4 people have to agree to sell the house at any time".
Did I get this right?