The daycare just states each party is 50% responsibility. Someone has to pay it each week whether she does nor not....we would both be out of employment. No, she
has not paid anything on the credit card debt. The marital property was to be paid
twice yearly for 3 years. When we go back to court, I was thinking about this:
Pay me the equity, since you have made no attempt to pay, I was forced to rent for 3 yrs, unable to get a residence because of lack of money, poor credit, due to her, I was unable
to also acquire some equity in my residence if I could have brought a home, again because I lack the finances to buy because she has not paid in a timely fashion. So, while she is acquiring equity in the house we both own for 3 yrs, advantage of tax write off, which I was not able to have, failure to be responsible for before and after school care. Acquiring a loan with both of our names on it while in divorce process without my knowledge until I seen a judgement on the court record. Fairlure to restore some of my poor credit to a better credit. I will be forced to pay a higher interest rate on any big item I buy, auto, home, etc over many years because of her lack of paying off debt. There also is something about credit restoration when someone runins the credit of another. I have written documentation also on child care from her. I certified her a letter when the lst payment was due and her remark said "I'm not picking up the certified, I know it's from you" stating that I was due the equity payment. I think she broke the agreement when she failed to pay the equity as stated in divorce, in a timely fashion.
I have written notes that she was putting house on market a year ago May and would
split the equity with me. I told her I would even split the cost of repairs, closing costs, etc.
However, she did not follow through on it.