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What is the name of your state? Connecticut
Hi!
I am new to this site and am very grateful I found it. I only hope I have picked the correct forum for my issue.
I having been trying to get help answering these questions and have left several messages for attorneys in my area, but NO ONE has called me back.
I have worked for the same company for 19 years. I have MAJOR spinal problems, including having had four failed back surgeries in the past 16 years, and am now diagnosed as having "failed back syndrome." I had NEVER had to use my short term disability benefits other than on one occasion during a surgical leave. That being said, I started to develop worsening problems in June of this past year. The pain became intolerable and my physician took me out work in September and I have yet to return to work. I am currently receiving short term disability (through a group plan my employer offers). This goes for six months and then, IF I have not or cannot return to work after that, I will move into long term disability.
In the interim, my husband has accepted a position in North Carolina and we will be moving next month. Naturally, I was planning on resigning my position and re-locating with him. I had a friend advise me to NOT resign my position or I would lose my benefits (short term and long term disability), benefits that I have paid into for a long time and, given the prognosis of my condition, might be the only protection I will have for my financial future.
I am really struggling with this. There is no question as to the validity of my disability - that's not the issue. The issue is - what am I allowed to do with my personal life while on disablity? If I do not resign and move to North Carolina, can the insurance company and/or employer terminate me? I am under an approved FMLA and know they can terminate me anyway after 6 months, when and IF I move into long term disability coverage. My coworkers are now upset with the prospect that even though I am moving next month, given that I might not vacate my position for another four months (when the FMLA is over), they will be short-staffed in the office for a longer time.
Any thoughts, ideas or recommendations out there??? Please help. I should be resigning in the next few days in order to provide an "adequate" notice to my employer.
Thanks!!
Friendofeline
P.S. Sorry for the long post!!!
Hi!
I am new to this site and am very grateful I found it. I only hope I have picked the correct forum for my issue.
I having been trying to get help answering these questions and have left several messages for attorneys in my area, but NO ONE has called me back.
I have worked for the same company for 19 years. I have MAJOR spinal problems, including having had four failed back surgeries in the past 16 years, and am now diagnosed as having "failed back syndrome." I had NEVER had to use my short term disability benefits other than on one occasion during a surgical leave. That being said, I started to develop worsening problems in June of this past year. The pain became intolerable and my physician took me out work in September and I have yet to return to work. I am currently receiving short term disability (through a group plan my employer offers). This goes for six months and then, IF I have not or cannot return to work after that, I will move into long term disability.
In the interim, my husband has accepted a position in North Carolina and we will be moving next month. Naturally, I was planning on resigning my position and re-locating with him. I had a friend advise me to NOT resign my position or I would lose my benefits (short term and long term disability), benefits that I have paid into for a long time and, given the prognosis of my condition, might be the only protection I will have for my financial future.
I am really struggling with this. There is no question as to the validity of my disability - that's not the issue. The issue is - what am I allowed to do with my personal life while on disablity? If I do not resign and move to North Carolina, can the insurance company and/or employer terminate me? I am under an approved FMLA and know they can terminate me anyway after 6 months, when and IF I move into long term disability coverage. My coworkers are now upset with the prospect that even though I am moving next month, given that I might not vacate my position for another four months (when the FMLA is over), they will be short-staffed in the office for a longer time.
Any thoughts, ideas or recommendations out there??? Please help. I should be resigning in the next few days in order to provide an "adequate" notice to my employer.
Thanks!!
Friendofeline
P.S. Sorry for the long post!!!
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