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Revision of Cusotdy and Support when Ex wife is upset over new fiance'

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calitogeorgia

Junior Member
North Carolina - Husband & wife divorced 4 years ago and verbally as well as mutually agreed to the divorce decree. It was agreed between both parties that husband would pay for child support however wife wanted him to instead pay for the childs childcare expense. Wife is also husbands employer for 2 years now, with no problems. Husband has had custody of the child starting out every 2 weekends and every wed, where wife had the child 1 weekend and M,T,T,F. This has worked out perfectly fine until the husband has become engaged. Wife is in an outrage and is now taking husband back to court stating that the new relationship is unhealthy and not meeting the needs of the child. Father has a home that him and wife owned together but now wife owns but husband pays the mortgage on. Wifes issue is that she has stated that father and new fiance are carrying out an unpresidented and unhealthy environment for the child. Wife also has stated to an attorney the name of the new fiance and the fact that husband and fiance met over the internet. The attorney is saying the the husband is not meeting his obligation to putting his childs best interests forward and that he should discontinue this relationship. Wife is doing this and has never met the new fiance and not only that but she has also made the stipulation that the child will not be with the father if this marriage takes place. She also is now stating to the attorney that husband has never met his obligation to the childsupport order knowing that in this state it could mean that the husband could be jailed due to the back childsupport. Can anyone help me with some kind of information in regards to the laws of custody and support in this state?:
 


Touché

Member
ok sorry if I offend but I am not good at spotting the "kelly"
is this a kelly?? This post just sounds off...
 

ceara19

Senior Member
Touché said:
ok sorry if I offend but I am not good at spotting the "kelly"
is this a kelly?? This post just sounds off...

I don't know for sure. I haven't been around long enough to spot her at first glance yet, but I'm getting there. I've gone to a "Higher Authority" to get a 2nd opinion, but it sure sounds like it to me.
 

calitogeorgia

Junior Member
What is a Kelly??

May I ask since this is originally my post what is in the world are you talking about? Kelly?? Huh?? Can ya'all fill me in.
 

ceara19

Senior Member
calitogeorgia said:
May I ask since this is originally my post what is in the world are you talking about? Kelly?? Huh?? Can ya'all fill me in.
One question, just HOW do you fit into the story in question here?
 

calitogeorgia

Junior Member
Kelly problem.....

Ok I think I have caught on now, is a Kelly the new girlfriend or as in this case the new fiance? The other woman?
 

Just Blue

Senior Member
calitogeorgia said:
Look all I am asking for is some information no games, thanks.
Sorry..Its kinda late and we are getting goofy...Hang on and someone will help...I can't help you withthis one...:)
 

ceara19

Senior Member
calitogeorgia said:
I am a sister to the situation that does not live in the state.
Your brother or sister, whichever one it is, has gotten themselves into a HUGE mess with this situation. It is really going to REQUIRE a good attorney to change the court order so that it will be very clear on who gets the kids and when and who is responsible for paying what. Short answer to your question though is "NO a former spouse does not get to choose who the other person dates, marries, talks to, sleeps with, ect. Any court order to the contrary would be considered unenforcable and therefore invalid."
 

calitogeorgia

Junior Member
Huge Mess

caere,
it is my brother that has landed him this bright and cheery situation, LOL. He has a new fiance that is a wonderful woman and she has children herself. My only concern is that he is so happy now and it just seems petty and personal with my ex-sister in law that she is doing this. She is trying to take away some of the custody that he has already established over 3 years with their 6 year old child.
 

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