Thank you BlondiePB and seniorjudge. We held out hope for a response from the trustee for family's sake--nothing so far. We wondered about separate attorneys, but were encouraged to stick together as a show of force. Do you think this is wrong? We are very close and have got along our whole lives. As far as the attorney's fee--he pointed out that with a contingency fee, he is paid only if he wins the case. But if we pay him hourly, he gets paid win or lose. He told us this could take a long time to resolve, with no guarantee of winning. We are trying to make the right decisions, and really appreciate all your help.