rmet

[acmb05]

What is the name of your state?tennessee

{quote}Well he already has a website so he has an environment perfect for cyber children, would that he had taken such interest in his own child.


I would suggest you leave my children out of it. KEEP BRINGING IT UP WHEN YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I HAVE DONE LATELY.

IT also has nothing to do with any of the threads you so vohemently bring it up on. You wanna bring family into our little discussion be prepared to face the consequences of your actions.

Your little insinuaisons that I dont care about one of my children is starting to piss me off so I would suggest you leave that alone and we will be fine.

 

[rmet4nzkx]

What is the name of your state?tennessee

{quote}Well he already has a website so he has an environment perfect for cyber children, would that he had taken such interest in his own child.


I would suggest you leave my children out of it. KEEP BRINGING IT UP WHEN YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I HAVE DONE LATELY.

IT also has nothing to do with any of the threads you so vohemently bring it up on. You wanna bring family into our little discussion be prepared to face the consequences of your actions.

Your little insinuaisons that I dont care about one of my children is starting to piss me off so I would suggest you leave that alone and we will be fine.

Your words:
https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=284318

What is the name of your state? Tennessee

I live in Tennessee and my ex lives in North Carolina. When we were divorced I didi not have the money to hire lawyer ad just sighned the papers giving her sole custody. This was after I had to lok for her for almost 4 years. After doing this she again disapeared on me and I did not find her for another 7 years. I have not seen my daughter since she was 6 months old and when I did find them and she knew she could not just up and move again because she was remarried she took me to court to have my parental rights taken away. I won that case but am on disability and cannnot afford to hire an atorney to fight her in court for visitation.

My question is in the divorce papers it says she has sole custody but does not mention visitation or support. I paid support the first 6 months after she was born but when she disappeared I had no where to send it. I just want to know what my legal rights are about seeing her. If I show up at a ball game of hers or something like that can I be denied a visit?Since nothing was ever put in writing in the divorce papers about visitation I assumed I can see her whenever I wanted to. Btw ex hates me and I have no idea what she has told my daughter about me. My daughter is now 16 years old and I have no idea what she even looks like cause the ex wont send me a picture.

 

[casa]

What is the name of your state?tennessee

{quote}Well he already has a website so he has an environment perfect for cyber children, would that he had taken such interest in his own child.


I would suggest you leave my children out of it. KEEP BRINGING IT UP WHEN YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I HAVE DONE LATELY.

IT also has nothing to do with any of the threads you so vohemently bring it up on. You wanna bring family into our little discussion be prepared to face the consequences of your actions.

Your little insinuaisons that I dont care about one of my children is starting to piss me off so I would suggest you leave that alone and we will be fine.

Interesting ultimatim coming from someone such as yourself, who regularly jumps on people.

 

[acmb05]

Show Me

Interesting ultimatim coming from someone such as yourself, who regularly jumps on people.

Where I have JUMPED on anyone. Also show me where I bring other posters family matters into threads just to try and degrade them.

 

[Just Blue]

Where I have JUMPED on anyone. Also show me where I bring other posters family matters into threads just to try and degrade them.

Well ...You were jumping on Jenn really bad!!

 

[acmb05]

then

Then show me where in my post it says I dont care about my child. I have been going back and forth in court with my ex for over 4 years now. I f I didnt care would I be going thru all that.

I made a mistake 16 years ago and she makes it sound like I abandoned my child when that is not what happened at all.

 

[acmb05]

yes I did

Well ...You were jumping on Jenn really bad!!

When I asked her a question and she got pissy.

 

[Ohreallynow?]

I would suggest you leave that alone and we will be fine.

Sorry acmb, you have asked the impossible. rmet does not have the capacity to leave anything alone. You will not be fine.

I wish you luck kiddo. You have stirred up a tornado, and now all the people will come and defend her and make you look bad.

It gets so ugly to see her following, because otherwise they seem like nice posters. **sigh**

Good luck.

Oh I also like how she always brings up posters past threads instead of just focusing on the current problem. She is one piece of work.

 

[Mbarr77]

Posts like this kinda make ya say..hmmmm

 

[Zephyr]

Sorry acmb, you have asked the impossible. rmet does not have the capacity to leave anything alone. You will not be fine.

I wish you luck kiddo. You have stirred up a tornado, and now all the people will come and defend her and make you look bad.

It gets so ugly to see her following, because otherwise they seem like nice posters. **sigh**

Good luck.

Oh I also like how she always brings up posters past threads instead of just focusing on the current problem. She is one piece of work.

the bold portion is the only part I am going to address- sometimes that added info is necessary to actually give proper advice, many times people asking questions will inadvertantly leave out important details, or purposely leave out important details, those details can make the difference in someone being properly prepared.

 

[acmb05]

I think what he meant was

the bold portion is the only part I am going to address- sometimes that added info is necessary to actually give proper advice, many times people asking questions will inadvertantly leave out important details, or purposely leave out important details, those details can make the difference in someone being properly prepared.

WHat he meant was when she disagrees with a poster she will bring up thier past problem or thread instead of focusing on the OP thread.

 

[casa]

Where I have JUMPED on anyone. Also show me where I bring other posters family matters into threads just to try and degrade them.

Every poster here is addressing Family matters. It's a Child Custody forum.

You do your share of jumping...and I find it ironic that you issue ultimatims, considering.

Nowhere did I say anything about your involvement or lack of, with your child. You are incorrectly attributing those comments to me.

 

[Mbarr77]

Sorry acmb, you have asked the impossible. rmet does not have the capacity to leave anything alone. You will not be fine.

I wish you luck kiddo. You have stirred up a tornado, and now all the people will come and defend her and make you look bad.

It gets so ugly to see her following, because otherwise they seem like nice posters. **sigh**

Good luck.

Oh I also like how she always brings up posters past threads instead of just focusing on the current problem. She is one piece of work.

I am not defending anyone, because clearly rmet does not need any defending from me. But, I see where rmet is coming from. There have been plenty of times where people (maybe even this OP) have just answered something off the cuff without even getting any clarification or background. I for one, would like to know that whatever answer I am getting is ACCURATE. Rmet is simply trying to protect the forum, and try to ensure that those that post here get correct answers.

 

[acmb05]

Basically

My daughter and my situation had nothing to do with the thread she was replying on so why even bring it up. Just to try and make me look bad?

 

[acmb05]

no casa

Every poster here is addressing Family matters. It's a Child Custody forum.

You do your share of jumping...and I find it ironic that you issue ultimatims, considering.

Nowhere did I say anything about your involvement or lack of, with your child. You are incorrectly attributing those comments to me.

I was attributing them to rmet. she is the one who always does it.