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Run Out of Town

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Is it a really small town?
Yes. The police chief told us once they had told another family to "get out of town before sundown." The dispatcher told us another resident wasn't "getting the hint" they wanted him to leave. They've had a history of doing this to others.
 


DHS has eligibility standards -- are you telling us that you met the requirements and still had your benefits cut?

And food banks also have eligibility standards; rarely do they have so much that they can just give to everyone who asks without question.
They wanted us gone, so they were harassing us into leaving and the DHS office in town had employees who lived there too. People later admitted they had been making false reports about us to DHS, police, etc., to either cause us to get arrested or to finally leave town.
 

cbg

I'm a Northern Girl
I can't help but be curious WHY everyone was so determined to run you out of town.
 

commentator

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One aspect of small town life is that yes, everybody does know everybody else's business. This totally innocent and greatly badly mistreated family has something about them that just plain old has ticked everyone else in town off. And what, exactly they have done, people think they have done, and what they want out of it is hard to determine. The only logical answer to this completely illogical situation is of course to move elsewhere. The idea here advanced by the OP is that the whole town should just be made to "pay" somehow. That only happens in bad Westerns.
 

LdiJ

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One aspect of small town life is that yes, everybody does know everybody else's business. This totally innocent and greatly badly mistreated family has something about them that just plain old has ticked everyone else in town off. And what, exactly they have done, people think they have done, and what they want out of it is hard to determine. The only logical answer to this completely illogical situation is of course to move elsewhere. The idea here advanced by the OP is that the whole town should just be made to "pay" somehow. That only happens in bad Westerns.
It might not be the "whole town" even. It might be just that the big fish in that small town want them out, and everybody else is too afraid to defend them. I have seen that kind of thing happen.
 

quincy

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Some states allow for judges to order someone to move out of the community/county ... not that the "running out of town" described here appears to be the result of a court order.
 

commentator

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I have been in small towns all my life, and as Louis L'Amour said, the biggest fallacy in the movie and tv Westerns is that there is a villain, there is a hero, and there are a bunch of "frightened townfolk" who have to have a hero to come in and save them from the bad guys. That frightened townfolk will let the evil folks do their thing is a bunch of baloney.

To come out West, in the old West, you had to be a pretty tough, pretty strong, pretty brave and in many cases, highly principled person. You fought your own battles. Most of us still do this today. I have seen many people get to be the Boss Hogg in many little towns. In every case, they eventually came down, weren't able to do much, even in the bad old days and in the peak of their so-called power. To suggest that some small town baddie could overrule any town in America, could get more than a few people to cooperate with them, not to mention all the law enforcement community, the city and county government, the state and federal agencies, and the local churches, synagogues and whatever is ludicrous.

Yes, it's true, I've heard some local law enforcement that used to joke that if they could make ten people in a small place disappear and of course the idea was, let them pick which ten people, they could stop 95% of the crime and trouble and mahem in the area. But that joke was based on tough experience, those people they were talking about had worked hard for the kudos.

I have also seen examples of small time thieves, welfare cheats and even habitual child abusers who would go from town to town as they became well known in some area or another and the locals got to paying them too much attention. Would suggest that is what this family should pack up and do, even if they're innocent as lillies.

I have a huge feeling we are not getting "the rest of the story."
 
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