mommyto 2 said:
I'm not sayin a girl can't dream.
I'm pretty lucky in that the kids attend school in a small community. I know most of the teachers/parents/administrators not only from the school, but from local sports, vet calls, giving riding lessons to their kids, the library, etc. The new wife is a newcomer. People don't know who she is yet, unless they're from the church, and she isn't allowed 'in'. The teachers defer to me over the ex or the step in EVERY case.
I'm very close friends with the school psychologist, we fox hunt together in the winter. She knows my kids quite well from social functions related to that. She also knows the ex quite well, from before, during and after the divorce. She's not fooled by his charm, and lately no one else seems to be either.