What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
My bf and I currently live in the same home with our son who is under 1 yr old. We have not been getting along and feel it's just not healthy anymore to stay together. I have an appointment in a week with the courts to file for custody. I am seeking FULL CUSTODY. I do not want my son seeing his father AT ALL without my sole permission. It may sound vindictive on my part but this is why:
The father has priors including 2 DUI's, and has spent a few months in jail. Unfortunately, I found out too late but he has an alcohol and drug addiction. While he's been intoxicated he's hit me and even sliced his arm (I have no idea why) in which I had to rush him to the hospital. This was during my pregnancy mind you. When my son was 7 weeks old he had troubles again which resulted in him trying to pull me down the stairs and the baby was also harmed "on accident." We had to press charges for domestic violence and got a one week restraining order. The judge found him guilty and is now on some sort of probation without an officer where if he commits any small fraction of a crime he will receive jail time. Also, his parents have not been supportive and have even stated that their son "did not hurt us that bad." His father among other members are alcoholics and haven't acted accordingly in my presence either.
OK, the reason why I stated all of this is because this is my proof that I don't believe my son is safe with his own father or family. I have proof of all situations. I don't believe it is in his best interest to be alone with any of them. I'm willing to fight for him! What are the odds that I will gain full custody-and the father have no physical rights or at the least with supervision.
My bf and I currently live in the same home with our son who is under 1 yr old. We have not been getting along and feel it's just not healthy anymore to stay together. I have an appointment in a week with the courts to file for custody. I am seeking FULL CUSTODY. I do not want my son seeing his father AT ALL without my sole permission. It may sound vindictive on my part but this is why:
The father has priors including 2 DUI's, and has spent a few months in jail. Unfortunately, I found out too late but he has an alcohol and drug addiction. While he's been intoxicated he's hit me and even sliced his arm (I have no idea why) in which I had to rush him to the hospital. This was during my pregnancy mind you. When my son was 7 weeks old he had troubles again which resulted in him trying to pull me down the stairs and the baby was also harmed "on accident." We had to press charges for domestic violence and got a one week restraining order. The judge found him guilty and is now on some sort of probation without an officer where if he commits any small fraction of a crime he will receive jail time. Also, his parents have not been supportive and have even stated that their son "did not hurt us that bad." His father among other members are alcoholics and haven't acted accordingly in my presence either.
OK, the reason why I stated all of this is because this is my proof that I don't believe my son is safe with his own father or family. I have proof of all situations. I don't believe it is in his best interest to be alone with any of them. I'm willing to fight for him! What are the odds that I will gain full custody-and the father have no physical rights or at the least with supervision.
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