What is the name of your state? Indiana - A few weeks ago a friend of ours had her mother pass away. The attorney that had been settling the estate for the uncle came to the surviving daughter and told her that she and her brother needed to sign documents giving him the authority to settle her mother's estate because they both had to be physically present to sign to open the estate. The girl is young and was in a state of shock and signed the documents. A few weeks later he came to her and told her that she owed him $25,000. All of this sounds fishy to me. Do both heirs have to be physically present to sign to open an estate in the State of Indiana? I feel like this guy is trying to take advantage of this woman.