LdiJ
Senior Member
How many recently divorced people could possibly come up with cash to aid a refinance? I am sure that there are some, but the vast majority of people could not.She also better be able to prove that she can not get cash in any manner in order to aid her refinance. And she better not have bought a new vehicle or other luxuries (vacation for instance) in the time that she states she cannot refinance.
Oh I will save you the trouble -- OP contact an attorney in your area to talk to because LD was disagreed with.
The point I am making is that the house is upside down, she has already explained that she has no cash to bring to a closing, and the ex filing for contempt could end up with a result that would do him MORE credit damage than the fact that she has not yet refinanced him off the loan.
If I had a choice, I would rather have my credit tied up than live with the ding of a short sale on my credit report.