Server issues

[Justmeasking]

What is the name of your state? Texas.

server told me tonight that if my bf isn’t able to be served she will leave on the door or give to me. (Also late at approximately 920pm) I was under the understanding that without proof of a judge signed court order they cannot do either. If she tries am I allowed to tell her without a court order I will not be accepting it and she cannot leave at the door?

 

[Just Blue]

What is the name of your state? Texas.

server told me tonight that if my bf isn’t able to be served she will leave on the door or give to me. (Also late at approximately 920pm) I was under the understanding that without proof of a judge signed court order they cannot do either. If she tries am I allowed to tell her without a court order I will not be accepting it and she cannot leave at the door?

What is the service for?

 

[Justmeasking]

What is the service for?

His ex (divorce already finalize since December) is now saying she should get money for things. Things not listed in final divorce decree and is trying have him served for court, in a city about 4 hours away. He already has an attorney and now has some how found out my name as well as the server knew who I was. Can’t see attorney until Wednesday

 

[Just Blue]

His ex (divorce already finalize since December) is now saying she should get money for things. Things not listed in final divorce decree and is trying have him served for court, in a city about 4 hours away. He already has an attorney and now has some how found out my name as well as the server knew who I was. Can’t see attorney until Wednesday

What kind of things? Evading service is useless and could really hurt him.

 

[Justmeasking]

Wanting repayment for rent in a place he never stayed. Half a time share she only paid 300 on and worth about 15000, to sell his motorcycle that is under his name and she wants part of sale. petty things like that. And he isn’t evading he just isn’t there. My main question is, can they just leave it there or hand to me? Esp if there is no judge signed order

 

[stealth2]

Have you indicated to the process server when/where your b/f can be served? Wouldn't that be most expedient? All y'all are doing is forestalling the inevitable.

 

[Zigner]

Does he live with you?

 

[Justmeasking]

Have you indicated to the process server when/where your b/f can be served? Wouldn't that be most expedient? All y'all are doing is forestalling the inevitable.

His schedule is all over so most of the time he either gets home really late or doesn’t know when he will be home and yes he lives with me.
However it seems as you are all missing the point to my question which is CAN they serve me with the papers or leave them on the door without a judge signed court order

 

[Just Blue]

His schedule is all over so most of the time he either gets home really late or doesn’t know when he will be home and yes he lives with me.
However it seems as you are all missing the point to my question which is CAN they serve me with the papers or leave them on the door without a judge signed court order

Of course they can. He is being served notice of a court action. If he doesn't show he may find a default judgement against him. Sign for the court papers.

 

[Zigner]

His schedule is all over so most of the time he either gets home really late or doesn’t know when he will be home and yes he lives with me.
However it seems as you are all missing the point to my question which is CAN they serve me with the papers or leave them on the door without a judge signed court order

The process server would need to obtain a court order for substituted service if s/he is not able to locate your BF.

 

[Zigner]

Of course they can. He is being served notice of a court action. If he doesn't show he may find a default judgement against him. Sign for the court papers.

In TX, a court order would be needed in order to serve upon an adult at his household...

 

[Just Blue]

In TX, a court order would be needed in order to serve upon an adult at his household...

Thank for correcting.

 

[Zigner]

Thank for correcting.

It seemed strange to me too when I read it, but it is what it is