Dad has filed a motion which, among other things, asks for removal of the GAL based on these issues... GAL's been assigned over a year now - plenty of time for them to meet. The counselor in question won't respond to dad's requests for records either - this seems to be most likely because the "counselor" is not actually a counselor licensed by the state, lied about his credentials on a letter to the court, and was reported to the state board for this. The board requirements don't grant complete confidentiality to children until they are 14, so he at the very least should have released appointment dates. Instead, he has failed to respond to multiple letters from both dad and the GAL.That is a problem. I do my dangest to talk to the parents, grandparents and anyone else that is requested that I talk to. I also do a lot of observation. if I have not been able to observe the child with the parents how can I possibly state what is in the child's best interest? Above all that observation is sometimes the key.
One of the biggest pieces of evidence i have found is how a parent acts when they are upset, angry and ticked off. Do they face it? Run from it? take it out on everyone around them? Or just get mad and deal with the person who upset them in conversation? That is important in my line due to the abused/dependent/neglected children I am in charge of.
Dad doesn't necessarily need to know the GAL's experience however he should be raising a stink that the GAL has NOT spoken with him nor received the records of counseling. That is first and foremost. If there are records on my children I want them. And I do my best to get them. Dad's attorney needs to be questioning the GAL on the stand under oath about how he came to his recommendations regarding dad and child without actually meeting child. If he is basing it strictly on child's wishes then he is acting as minor's counsel and NOT as the child's GAL.
For informational purposes, this is the statute under which the GAL was assigned...
RULE 5:8B. APPOINTMENT OF GUARDIAN AD LITEM
(a) Appointment. In all cases in which custody or parenting time/visitation is an issue, a guardian ad litem may be appointed by court order to represent the best interests of the child or children if the circumstances warrant such an appointment. The services rendered by a guardian ad litem shall be to the court on behalf of the child. A guardian ad litem may be appointed by the court on its own motion or on application of either or both of the parents. The guardian ad litem shall file a written report with the court setting forth findings and recommendations and the basis thereof, and shall be available to testify and shall be subject to cross-examination thereon. In addition to the preparation of a written report and the obligation to testify and be cross-examined thereon, the duties of a guardian may include, but need not be limited to, the following:
1. Interviewing the children and parties.
2. Interviewing other persons possessing relevant information.
3. Obtaining relevant documentary evidence.
4. Conferring with counsel for the parties.
5. Conferring with the court, on notice to counsel.
6. Obtaining the assistance of independent experts, on leave of court.
7. Obtaining the assistance of a lawyer for the child (Rule 5:8A) on leave of court.
8. Such other matters as the guardian ad litem may request, on leave of court.
(b) Objection or Refusal of Appointment. A proposed guardian ad litem shall have the right to consent or to decline to serve as such, notice of such decision to be in writing to the court with copies to counsel. The parties shall have the right to object to the person appointed as guardian ad litem on good cause shown.
(c) Term. The term of the guardian ad litem shall be coextensive with the application pending before the court and shall end on the entry of a Judgment of Divorce or an Order terminating the application for which the appointment was made, unless continued by the court. The guardian ad litem shall have no obligation to file a notice of appeal from a Judgment or Order nor to participate in an appeal filed by a party.
(d) Fee. The hourly rate to be charged by the guardian ad litem shall be fixed in the initial appointing order and the guardian ad litem shall submit informational monthly statements to the parties. The court shall have the power and discretion to fix a retainer in the appointing order and to allocate final payment of the guardian ad litem fee between the parties. The guardian ad litem shall submit a certification of services at the conclusion of the matter, on notice to the parties, who will thereafter be afforded the right to respond prior to the court fixing the final fee.