concerned0782
Junior Member
Open heart surgery 32yo male on std help!!!!!!!!!!
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Alabama
my husband is having open heart surgery this thursday feb11th. he will be out of work for at least 3 months for sure and has already been off work for one month so far and is receiving his std checks weekly.
My question is...he has a child support order in effect to pay 353.00 each payperiod which is about 706.00 a month and has been and we actually have it garnished from his check each payperiod so we don't have to receive any ugly phone calls from her(ex) or any nasty text messages.
Now having said that my husband is extremely afraid of going back to court because her attorney is actually best friends with the judge so even back when she had filed for a modification for more child support she was awarded much more than what she should have received because she flat out lied about her income. So we totally got screwed. Since then she is no longer working at walmart making 10.25 an hour but has actually opened up her own business as a photographer.
So like i was saying my husband is scared of going to file for a modification bc she could lie about her income now since there really is no way to prove how much she is really actually making especially if she is paid in cash. So what is your best advice for my husband and I.
Also this woman is totally about the money and not the child she could care less about him actually even this child who is 8 years old states he wants to come live with me my husband and our 2 yr old little baby girl.
So anyway I just want things to be fair and just that is all. We have no problems paying CS but we know we are totally getting screwed right now paying her 707.00 a month.
i mean the type of woman you are dealing with is one who had asked my husband to drop the child from his insurance policy so she could put him on medicare because she was sick and tired of having to pay 20.00 copays at the drs office as well as copays for the child rx. so maybe you can get a better idea of what she is like she learned all of this from her mother who had 5 kids all with different fathers and is always milking the system any and every which way they can. its totally pathetic!
please we need some words of encouragement and advice. thank you kindly
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Alabama
my husband is having open heart surgery this thursday feb11th. he will be out of work for at least 3 months for sure and has already been off work for one month so far and is receiving his std checks weekly.
My question is...he has a child support order in effect to pay 353.00 each payperiod which is about 706.00 a month and has been and we actually have it garnished from his check each payperiod so we don't have to receive any ugly phone calls from her(ex) or any nasty text messages.
Now having said that my husband is extremely afraid of going back to court because her attorney is actually best friends with the judge so even back when she had filed for a modification for more child support she was awarded much more than what she should have received because she flat out lied about her income. So we totally got screwed. Since then she is no longer working at walmart making 10.25 an hour but has actually opened up her own business as a photographer.
So like i was saying my husband is scared of going to file for a modification bc she could lie about her income now since there really is no way to prove how much she is really actually making especially if she is paid in cash. So what is your best advice for my husband and I.
Also this woman is totally about the money and not the child she could care less about him actually even this child who is 8 years old states he wants to come live with me my husband and our 2 yr old little baby girl.
So anyway I just want things to be fair and just that is all. We have no problems paying CS but we know we are totally getting screwed right now paying her 707.00 a month.
i mean the type of woman you are dealing with is one who had asked my husband to drop the child from his insurance policy so she could put him on medicare because she was sick and tired of having to pay 20.00 copays at the drs office as well as copays for the child rx. so maybe you can get a better idea of what she is like she learned all of this from her mother who had 5 kids all with different fathers and is always milking the system any and every which way they can. its totally pathetic!
please we need some words of encouragement and advice. thank you kindly
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