So, whatever happened to the Drama Club?

[bugaboo]

I know IAAL, I remember. I also remember questioning my loyality when so many others saw differently.

Well, after 5 years of hell, I've learned. It wasn't easy going out on my own, I was very scared. But I'll tell you what, the freedom and happiness I have felt since I've left is worth all the heartache I ever felt.



Butterfree, I too hope the boys will be able to meet one day. That would be a very special time for them all.

 

[raiseretrievers]

Iaal

...got salt?

I had to post as a different user to get real advice. Sorry.

 

[The It]

Heeeeeeeeeeeres TheIt!

Hi, my name is TheIt
and I'd like to say
'ello.

This turn of events is bizarre at best and just plain FUN FUN FUN!!!

 

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

I know IAAL, I remember. I also remember questioning my loyality when so many others saw differently.

My response:

Well, all's well that ends well - - at least it sounds that way. Hey, at least Rad did one thing right in that sorry-ass life of his: He helped produce that beautiful child. Good luck to the both of you.

IAAL

 

[styl4u64]

What?

...got salt?

I had to post as a different user to get real advice. Sorry.

Is this an 'insider' statement/comment? I am intrigued, curious,,,,NOSY

 

[bugaboo]

Ya know what Iaal, I think that's the first time I've read something you've posted and teared up (although, I'm also extra emotional these days lol).

What you said really touched my heart, thank you. It's been a big struggle financially and emotionally, but we're making it. It's just me, my son and my 10 yo daughter, and we lean on each other. Nobody ever said life was easy...but it's definately what you make of it! And I plan on making the best out of it!

God Bless.

 

[The It]

Lawyer troubles 09-11-2002, 12:14 AM

My response:

By the way, I never believed him. I always thought "Rad" was a whiny slug, and I told him so a long time ago.

IAAL

got salt?

This is where I got the mysterious response.

 

[theb]

Wow

so many "ol faces"!!

Bug,
Im glad to see ya and I hope you keep that faith you have in yourself right now. Things dont always turn out as we plan and sometimes it just takes us longer to see someone's true colors when we are wearing blinders.

Hang in there Mom!!!

Faith

 

[Let the DJ try]

so many "ol faces"!!

Bug,
Im glad to see ya and I hope you keep that faith you have in yourself right now. Things dont always turn out as we plan and sometimes it just takes us longer to see someone's true colors when we are wearing blinders.

Hang in there Mom!!!

Faith

You with the sad eyes
don't be discouraged
oh I realize
it's hard to take courage
in a world full of people
you can lose sight of it all
and the darkness inside you
can make you fell so small

But I see your true colors
shining through
I see your true colors
and that's why I love you
so don't be afraid to let them show
your true colors
true colors are beautiful
like a rainbow

Show me a smile then
don't be unhappy, can't remember
when I last saw you laughing
if this world makes you crazy
and you've taken all you can bear
you call me up
because you know I'll be there

And I'll see your true colors
shining through
I see your true colors
and that's why I love you
so don't be afraid to let them show
your true colors
true colors are beautiful
like a rainbow


Cyndi Lauper

 

[bugaboo]

It's great to see ya Faith!

I plan on staying strong. I'm all my kids have got right now and that's what is keeping me going. I wish that I had the power of hindsight..if i knew then what I know now type deal...but then again, I wouldn't have my baby boy~

BTW, thanks for the recommendation to a certain parenting sight (FT)....I LIVE there and have made some VERY dear friends!

 

[bugaboo]

DJ, I don't know you...not sure why you post songs instead of just replying..but anyway..just wanted to say I love that song and it really fits me right now...thanks.

 

[Grace_Adler]

Well my apologies to anyone that I may have offended. I have often wondered about certain things myself but didn't ask too many questions with bug and rad because I felt if they wanted me to know, they would tell me. And I didn't want to ask butterfree or the it because, well, I felt it would be betrayal to people I considered friends and felt it would have been one sided anyway. And it's hard to ask the 4 parties involved too many things anyway because everyone involved has their own perspective and is directly involved which can make people biased or too emotionally tied to the situation. And I sure wasn't going to be the one to tell anyone's business. Not only that, sometimes we want to believe the best about people, especially if they are our friends. And what can I say? I am a loyal friend, even if going about it the wrong way or I accidentally put my rose colored glasses on.

And I think it took a lot of courage, strength, dignity and maturity to say what you did, bug as well as for both of you to reconcile. I wish you guys the best.

Well with that said...


IAAL, well, I was going to start another thread but what the heck? I'll go ahead and say it here. Happy very Belated Birthday! I didn't forget about ya. I know ours are close together but I haven't been here much, especially since I'm busting my ass trying to make sure I get into law school next year. So anyway, hope it was a good one!

 

[Sandwalk]

t's all very fascinating.

Butterfree and TheIt broke up and he evicted her from the house he bought from her for $1. He cleaned out their joint bank account and is now the top chicken breeder in Bugtussle Oregon.

Butterfree, now destitute, was forced to move back home with her mother. She managed to land a job at the local Good Will and has moved up to manager of the shoe dept. She recieves great perks with her new position; all the free second hand flip flops she wants. She developed a terrible foot fungus because of this and is shunned by most of the town.

Raddad and bugaboo hit the powerball and bought a small island in Greece. Bugaboo still sends postcards to her dearest friends from time to time and pictures of her darling little baby bugaboo.


The end.

Smarty Pants...You crack me up!!! I have not been on here that much but, that just cracked me up!! Thanks for the laugh I needed one!! I just got the mail and received a bill from our online pharmacy....A bill that was suppose to be taken care of because we had credit on our account.SO...I called to see what was up and it seems that my husbands ex thought that credit should have been hers!! Somehow she received a letter just like we did with my husbands name on it and called to the online pharmacy and tried to cash in on it!! Unbelievable!!! I got everything worked out and she is not going to get a dime!! I am taking notes on this....talk about drama. I may just end up on the top of all of your Drama Queen lists if this crap with the ex doesn't stop soon!! Thanks for letting me vent!!

 

[bugaboo]

Thanks Grace. You don't need to apologize to me..I understood why you did what you did, but I'm sure butterfree appreciates it. I know I've spoken to you some about what I was going through and you have been a VERY good friend. You've always been supportive and tried to (politely) get me to open my eyes and see the truth...lol For that I'm very thankful. Sometimes it takes views from the outside world to be able to see things clearly.

IAAL and Grace...Happy Belated Birthdays to you both!!! I hope they were the best day! I just had one myself...a BIGGIE bday...the BIG 30! lol

Grace...LAW SCHOOL!!! WOW, ok it's been a while since we've just chatted...I didn't know you were going to law school! That's GREAT! I wish you the VERY best. And I'm still planning on a weekend vacation to come see you!! I'll let you know when I'm coming!!

HUGE HUGS to you guys!!

 

[Grace_Adler]

LOL You're welcome! I try. If I was any help at all, I'm glad. LOL Hey maybe we can get the DJ to play "That's What Friends Are For." LOL

Yeah, well, I don't know about law school yet. I still have to apply and take the LSAT in June or Oct. and all that, so we'll see. Hmm that reminds me, I need to hit my professors up for letters of recommendation. LOL

Yeah! Come on up when you can! Good reason to cook out!

Oh yeah, forgot to add, thanks for the birthday wishes.

And LMSP is hilarious! She has a talent for creating and telling stories! You missed your calling girl! LMAO