Nor did he have to. Hence paternity has NOT been established.
Is kindergarten required in your state?
no it is not.
So you are basing it on HEARSAY from your daughter. Dad didn't tell you he told her that.
Why would he admit that he lied? that defeats the purpose of lying.
Which is DIFFERENT THAN WHAT YOU SAID BEFORE. Your story is changing. You originally said:
But now you did keep mentioning it to him. Which one was the lie?
I would say things like she has to go to school and be ignored. What would you like me to call it. I should have phrased it that I never fought with him over it.
So YOU haven't paid anything. You are counting SCHOLARSHIP money as your contribution? Ummm, it isn't.
I understand that legally it doesn't count, I was following the terms of our verbal agreement.
And did you talk to dad about the class? Or did you just expect him to fall in line?
I informed him that since she was at the studio there was a class she could take. He had not issue with it until I started dating and he found out.
You have no clue. You should have gotten her into counseling to deal with this. Instead you just use it as an excuse with no way of actually bettering the situation for your daughter. Or is now your story going to change that you got her into counseling?
You are right. I don't have a clue. THAT IS WHY I CAME HERE FOR ADVICE!!!!
She has not had to start spending overnights with him yet. We are still in the supervised period. Should I get her into counceling? Should I not? will it make his case stronger because I can't help her deal with everything? What should I do? This is why I came here and have been looking for advise!
YOu expect him to have the child when it is your wish. And if he didn't take the job then he couldn't keep giving you money for child's school.
No. I was simply going along with the status quo. He had a better paying job before he changed jobs. The manager changed something at work that he didn't like and he quit the same day even after being told the change was temporary. He then took a lower paying job that he knew interfered with mine and her school schedule.
Why should he run to your beck and call?
He shouldn't. but he went from being fine with it to yelling at me that he would no longer take her anywhere for anything. He never tried to communicate with me about it AT ALL .