There was an agreement between my sons mother and my mom. However, many times my mother has had to call me to tell me she is not getting any money from the mother. She gives my mother the money at her convenience and the amounts she chooses. My mother was also assuming that my sons mother would be giving her money on her behalf and not just the money I've been providing. That certainly hasn't happened. As I mentioned in my previous reply when I mentioned this to the CSE Unit there response was, " Well it's just your word against hers". That says alot. I believe that in there eyes the dad is usually the bad guy and always will be. Even though I have no arrears and payments have never been missed. My son will never lack anything. He will be taken care of whether his mother gives up the money or not. This is just a frustratingly unfair situation. But her checks are numbered now and I'm sure she knows it.
