mommyofmany27
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I went through this last year with my ex, but he didn't tell me he was going to claim the kids on his taxes..not that I would have agreed. When I went to file my return electronically it got kicked back stating that the children had already been claimed. I contacted the IRS and was told to submit a paper return and they would investigate. They alerted my ex that I had also tried to claim the kids and if he had claimed them without realizing he couldn't (but I believe the IRS has seen this so much they know the deal)then he would need to ammend his return. That scared him enough to go back and ammend it without anything further happening. My advice to you would be to attempt to file electronically the second you have everything you need to file. If he beats you to the punch,then you'll have to file a paper return. It'll take longer to get your refund from the IRS if there is a dispute over who can legally claim the EIC, but I think its worth it to show him that he cannot strong arm you into doing something that isn't legal.
Just on a side note:it always gets me going when the NCP thinks they are entitled to financial breaks because they pay CS. When realistically they have no clue how little CS actually covers and how much CP's actually pay to care for the children. Yes,that financial obligation comes along with being the CP but you won't hear me complaining about having to pay for this or that or not getting a tax break when it isn't deserved.
Just on a side note:it always gets me going when the NCP thinks they are entitled to financial breaks because they pay CS. When realistically they have no clue how little CS actually covers and how much CP's actually pay to care for the children. Yes,that financial obligation comes along with being the CP but you won't hear me complaining about having to pay for this or that or not getting a tax break when it isn't deserved.