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brisgirl825

Senior Member
mac75 said:
Within 2 weeks of birth dad disappeared. My nephew and niece moved into my house when he was 3 month old. When my nephew was 4 mon. old that is when the abuse took place. I contacted CPS to report it out of concern for my nephew's future safety and they advised me to get a protective order. CPS was not involved with those proceedings except to do an investigation. The reason for that was, I had already taken steps to keep my nephew safe by getting the protective order. The father was not involved in any of those proceedings. When I filed for sole, legal and physical custody I had to include bio in those proceedings. It is probably safe to say that since mid August of 2003 he has seen him 5 times. I really tried to encourage bio to form a relationship with my nephew. I offered to pick him up, take my nephew to him, to move in my house with the possibility of gaining employment with my husband, gave him pictures, updates etc. I told him on several different occasions that I am giving him many opportunities but that he has to take advantage of them. I don't know if this is important or not but bio dad was a minor when my nephew was born.
You certainly did the right thing by reporting all of this and securing a healthy home for the child.

Dad has not been very active in the child's life and some courts can decide NOT to take those sporadic visits into consideration during tpr proceedings. I don't know if your state is one of those or not.
Since dad was just recently ordred to pay support, you can't really argue that he has not been financially supporting the child. His status as a minor may have had a lot to do with why he wasn't given custody.

This may be one of those times where it is easier to sit back and let things happen. Let dad make or break this situation. He has a choice to support the child or not. If he chooses the latter, that will be useful in court.
Stop calling him to facilitate visitation. He's a big boy, let him be responsible for making the time to see the baby. He wants to be a dad so that means he can't rely on everyone to do this stuff for him.

I will do some googling to see how long one must fail to provide support and fail to contact a child before they have met the grounds for tpr based on abandonment.
 


mac75

Junior Member
Does anyone know how long bio-dad has to file an objection? I can't find anything in regards to the time allowed on the Show Cause Order. My guess is 30 days but I'm not sure. Thank you all so much for all of your input and if you think of anything else please let me know.

"I will do some googling to see how long one must fail to provide support and fail to contact a child before they have met the grounds for tpr based on abandonment."

Thank you I also can't find the legal term for abandonment.
 

bononos

Senior Member
mac75 said:
Does anyone know how long bio-dad has to file an objection? I can't find anything in regards to the time allowed on the Show Cause Order. My guess is 30 days but I'm not sure. Thank you all so much for all of your input and if you think of anything else please let me know.

"I will do some googling to see how long one must fail to provide support and fail to contact a child before they have met the grounds for tpr based on abandonment."

Thank you I also can't find the legal term for abandonment.
Around here it's 20 days.
 

brisgirl825

Senior Member
Oh how I love Google....






§ 5-312. When parental consent not required - Independent adoption.

(a) Scope of section.-
(1) This section applies only to independent adoptions in which a natural parent affirmatively withholds consent by filing a notice of objection.
(2) This section does not permit a licensed or approved foster parent to petition a court for adoption of a child who was placed with the foster parent by a child placement agency unless the child placement agency consents.
(b) In general.- Without the consent of the child's natural parent, a court may grant a decree of adoption to a stepparent, relative, or other individual who has exercised physical care, custody, or control of a child for at least 6 months, if by clear and convincing evidence the court finds that:
(1) it is in the best interest of the child to terminate the natural parent's rights as to the child;
(2) the child has been out of the custody of the natural parent for at least 1 year;
(3) the child has developed significant feelings toward and emotional ties with the petitioner; and
(4) the natural parent:
(i) has not maintained meaningful contact with the child during the time the petitioner has had custody despite the opportunity to do so;
(ii) has repeatedly failed to contribute to the physical care and support of the child although financially able to do so;
(iii) has been convicted of child abuse of the child or another child of the natural parent; or
(iv) has:
1. subjected the child to:
A. torture, chronic abuse, or sexual abuse; or
B. chronic and life-threatening neglect;
2. been convicted:
A. in this State of a crime of violence, as defined in § 14-101 of the Criminal Law Article, against the child, the other natural parent of the child, another child of the natural parent, or any person who resides in the household of the natural parent;
B. in any state or in any court of the United States of a crime that would be a crime of violence, as defined in § 14-101 of the Criminal Law Article, if committed in this State against the child, the other natural parent of the child, another child of the natural parent, or any person who resides in the household of the natural parent; or
C. of aiding or abetting, conspiring, or soliciting to commit a crime described in item A or B of this item; or
3. involuntarily lost parental rights of a sibling of the child.
(c) Considerations.-
(1) If the court finds that any of the circumstances enumerated in subsection (b)(4)(iii) or (iv) of this section exists, the court shall make a specific finding, based on facts in the record, as to whether or not the return of the child to the custody of the natural parent poses an unacceptable risk to the future safety of the child.
(2) In determining whether it is in the best interest of the child to terminate a natural parent's rights as to the child under this section, the court shall:
(i) give primary consideration to the safety and health of the child; and
(ii) request an investigation by an appropriate agency and a report of the investigation that includes summaries of:
1. the child's feelings toward and emotional ties with the child's natural parents, the child's siblings, the petitioner, and any other individual who may significantly affect the child's best interest;
2. the child's adjustment to home, school, and community;
and
3. if the natural parent is absent, an evaluation of the petitioner's attempts to locate the absent natural parent.
(d) Limitation.- A court may not grant a decree of adoption under this section solely because a natural parent:
(1) does not have legal custody of the child by reason of divorce or legal separation; or
(2) has been deprived of custody of the child by the act of the other natural parent.
(e) Visitation privileges.- After the adoption, if it is in the child's best interest, the adoptive parent and a nonconsenting natural parent may agree to visitation privileges between the child and the natural parent or siblings.

[An. Code 1957, art. 16, § 77; 1984, ch. 296, § 2; 1987, ch. 279; 1995, chs. 608, 609; 1998, ch. 629; 2002, ch. 213, § 6.]
 

brisgirl825

Senior Member
mac75 said:
Does anyone know how long bio-dad has to file an objection?



§ 5-322. Notice.




(ii) Failure to receive a response to an inquiry within 30 days of mailing shall constitute a negative response to the inquiry.
 

mac75

Junior Member
brisgirl825- thank you so much! By reading that it seems like I have a good chance at winning. On the other hand I've heard so many times that terminating parental rights is a very difficult task to accomplish. I guess I will just have to do what you said and see what happens.
 

brisgirl825

Senior Member
mac75 said:
brisgirl825- thank you so much! By reading that it seems like I have a good chance at winning. On the other hand I've heard so many times that terminating parental rights is a very difficult task to accomplish. I guess I will just have to do what you said and see what happens.
You really should get a free consult. It will cost nothing and you can have the opinion of an experienced person in your area. You may not have to wait...

Keep us updated.
 

mac75

Junior Member
brisgirl825 said:
You really should get a free consult. It will cost nothing and you can have the opinion of an experienced person in your area. You may not have to wait...

Keep us updated.

I will keep you guys updated! I do have an attorney but he to tells me we can try but not to get our hopes up. My attorney does not specialize in adoptions, I couldn't find one in my area and I didn't want to bring someone in from another county. However my attorney is well known and respected so I just pray that he doesn't miss anything. I figure that it will only benefit me to gain as much knowledge as possible. Thank you very much for all of your help.
 

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