mominohio1481
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Ohio
Hi there. I have a 6 yo and her father is now deciding to want to see her or TPR. He is all for TPR. I have read many many forums and i have gathered that you cannot TPR unless you have a stepparent to adopt... I am not married and will not be for another year. In Ohio i hear you cannot adopt until you have been married for 6 months. My ex says that somehow his rights can be terminated by not having any "contact for 6 months", which i thought it was longer than that anyways. He has been paying child support. He says he talked to his great lawyer and his lawyer says that if i open an escrow account for his child support payments this will suffice for his no contact. Does anyone know if there is any truth to this? He just wants the payment off of his back. He says if he is unable to give up his rights he will see her for about 2 or so years before he goes to NC to move with his new wife. Also if i do get married he says he will not wait the 6 months to do this. He wants it done now. My only thing is the well fair of my daughter. I could care less if i recieve his payments, just as long as my daughter does not have to suffer emotionally. He has toyed with her emotions before and i have almost sout counseling (if i would have had health insurance at the time) for the distrought it caused her. Sorry this is so long, i just want to make sure of all of my options. Thank you.
Hi there. I have a 6 yo and her father is now deciding to want to see her or TPR. He is all for TPR. I have read many many forums and i have gathered that you cannot TPR unless you have a stepparent to adopt... I am not married and will not be for another year. In Ohio i hear you cannot adopt until you have been married for 6 months. My ex says that somehow his rights can be terminated by not having any "contact for 6 months", which i thought it was longer than that anyways. He has been paying child support. He says he talked to his great lawyer and his lawyer says that if i open an escrow account for his child support payments this will suffice for his no contact. Does anyone know if there is any truth to this? He just wants the payment off of his back. He says if he is unable to give up his rights he will see her for about 2 or so years before he goes to NC to move with his new wife. Also if i do get married he says he will not wait the 6 months to do this. He wants it done now. My only thing is the well fair of my daughter. I could care less if i recieve his payments, just as long as my daughter does not have to suffer emotionally. He has toyed with her emotions before and i have almost sout counseling (if i would have had health insurance at the time) for the distrought it caused her. Sorry this is so long, i just want to make sure of all of my options. Thank you.