Trying to change permanent parenting with no lawyer

[mistoffolees]

Well, then perhaps you should read the thread more thoroughly Misto...and hold 50/50 dads to the standard that you set, not just 50/50 moms. I don't mean that sarcastically in any way. You set a high standard. You do an excellent job. I would love to see you hold dads to the same standards that you hold moms.

Sorry, I see no reason to believe a bitter mother's description of her ex - when her entire goal is to take the child away from him.

You don't know what he's like any more than I do.

 

[Ohiogal]

We disagree at times but we don't get rude, arrogant and name calling

i would say what you wrote is pretty rude..

I would say what I wrote was truthful. I was pointing out that you believe the child should be with you because you are mom. The child could also have stability with dad. Dad could take her to the doctor, register for school and various other things as well.

 

[momtab]

I would say what I wrote was truthful. I was pointing out that you believe the child should be with you because you are mom. The child could also have stability with dad. Dad could take her to the doctor, register for school and various other things as well.

but he doesnt do any of those things and honestly if something happened and he had to he would be at loss as to what to what to do because hes always had ppl to do for him so he didnt have to put effort into learning how to be a full adult. and what you said was not truthful what you said was what i would expect to hear from a bratty ******* that wants attention
This site is hardly helpful honestly because of ppl like you, you are pretty much just a troll and trying to get off by insulting ppl you have no clue about online, funny u insult me and bash me but yet u take up for someone you also have no clue about. Maybe you have a complex against women or mothers? Lastly, nothing u posted anywhere on my thread was in the least bit informative, all you did was toss out trash talk and insults. I really feel bad for you that as an adult you have to troll forums and trash people seeking help and advice and then call yourself a senior member on this site? You must be a troll from way back.

 

[gr8rn]

her teacher has stated she will have to start sending her to the principal because she refuses to listen or follow directions and disrupts class.

My child is very intelligent, is in advanced programs in her school.

How can you possibly reconcile both comments about your child while she is in Kindergarten. First of all, advanced programs in Kindergarten? What, like advanced coloring, and advanced ABC's? And how can a child in Kindergarten be retained in any "advanced" programs if they are not following directions, refusing to listen, and disrupting class? Sorry, I call BS on the whole scenario and if she is disrupting class and you have 50-50, the arguement that it is all Dad's fault will blow up in your face. If I were you I would stop the relocation request as I see that going very badly for you.

 

[mistoffolees]

How can you possibly reconcile both comments about your child while she is in Kindergarten. First of all, advanced programs in Kindergarten? What, like advanced coloring, and advanced ABC's? And how can a child in Kindergarten be retained in any "advanced" programs if they are not following directions, refusing to listen, and disrupting class? Sorry, I call BS on the whole scenario and if she is disrupting class and you have 50-50, the arguement that it is all Dad's fault will blow up in your face. If I were you I would stop the relocation request as I see that going very badly for you.

Believe it or not, some schools do have different levels of kindergarten classes (typically readers in one class, non-readers in the other). It's not very common - and I'm not sure it's even a good idea, but it does happen.

Of course, the rest of your arguments are spot on. It could well be that the child's 'stability problems' are 100% due to Mom trying to take her away from Dad - and talking about moving out of state. The solution to that is simple - child stays with Dad and stays at the same school, same friends, same neighborhood. Stability problem solved.

 

[stealth2]

but he doesnt do any of those things and honestly if something happened and he had to he would be at loss as to what to what to do because hes always had ppl to do for him so he didnt have to put effort into learning how to be a full adult. and what you said was not truthful what you said was what i would expect to hear from a bratty ******* that wants attention

And you just might be surprised. A lot of people step up to the plate when push comes to shove (i.e. if your daughter was injured).

I have to be honest. What I see is a load of reasons you're coming up with to convince the court to allow you to move. I really don't see someone who is attempting to co-parent. Have you looked for jobs closer to where you are now? That would be the ideal situation - I'm not sure how you think moving the child away from her father is adding stability to her life. Really, I don't.

 

[Ohiogal]

but he doesnt do any of those things and honestly if something happened and he had to he would be at loss as to what to what to do because hes always had ppl to do for him so he didnt have to put effort into learning how to be a full adult.

Really? You know that for a fact? He doesn't know how to open a phone book or call 911 or make a doctor's appointment or talk to a teacher? Seriously?

and what you said was not truthful what you said was what i would expect to hear from a bratty ******* that wants attention

Yeah what I said was truthfuly.

This site is hardly helpful honestly because of ppl like you, you are pretty much just a troll and trying to get off by insulting ppl you have no clue about online, funny u insult me and bash me but yet u take up for someone you also have no clue about.

Nope. Not a troll. Not at all.

Maybe you have a complex against women or mothers?

Showing your ignorance some more. Love it. Keep showing your ignorance.

Lastly, nothing u posted anywhere on my thread was in the least bit informative, all you did was toss out trash talk and insults. I really feel bad for you that as an adult you have to troll forums and trash people seeking help and advice and then call yourself a senior member on this site? You must be a troll from way back.

LOL. Oh you are entertaining. You really need to learn to comprehend what was being said to you.

 

[Ohiogal]

How can you possibly reconcile both comments about your child while she is in Kindergarten. First of all, advanced programs in Kindergarten? What, like advanced coloring, and advanced ABC's? And how can a child in Kindergarten be retained in any "advanced" programs if they are not following directions, refusing to listen, and disrupting class? Sorry, I call BS on the whole scenario and if she is disrupting class and you have 50-50, the arguement that it is all Dad's fault will blow up in your face. If I were you I would stop the relocation request as I see that going very badly for you.

Her daughter is advanced because only the brilliant children would not know how to follow directions in kindergarten and would disrupt class.