Beth1818, I think that Georgia did not accept the "domestic violence" aspect of the unemployment stimulus package, but I think that you can safely say that your problems at work were all due to a "personal emergency" of the domestic violence category.
You will submit the appeal, simply saying, "I request an appeal". At this point, as I said, someone should contact you from the DOL or you should receive notice of a hearing.
In any case, you have a fair to middling chance here. What you will state is that you had trouble at your work, including the lateness, due to your personal emergency, which was that your boyfriend had a melt down during this time, and that he became abusive and was stalking you, contacting you at work, holding and threatening you so that you were not able to come to work on time sometimes.
Say that you, and I hope you did this, tried to keep your employer fully informed about the problems you were experiencing and tried to work these problems out with your employer from the beginning of this situation. That you did not want to lose your job.
Do not say, "Well, I probably wasn't doing a very good job on my job." That's not going to get you approved as it sounds as though you were deliberately screwing up. Say instead that you did the job to the best of your abilities, though many things were going on in your life at this time and you were very stressed.
Also state that you are back in town, and that the situation has been resolved, that you did your best to keep your job, and that you are able and available to work now.
You will want to mention that you were with this company for x number of months, with good performance and no problems regarding lateness or any other issues, and that once this situation has been resolved, you feel that you will be able to go forward and work without any problems what so ever.
Good luck on this, there is some latitude built into the stimulus package and in some states for victims of domestic violence to appeal for their unemployment. Georgia does not seem to be one of these, but the attitudes of the whole system toward domestic violence situations is changing. I doubt if they can say your tardiness and any performance issues were genuine intentional misconduct on your part. Your role is to say you tried your best in a very difficult personal situation, and you did not voluntarily do tardiness or poor performance of any kind. Do not bring up any other work related issues such as his calling you or harrassing you on the job. If they bring them up, that's okay.