Shay-Pari'e
Senior Member
I think JETX needs to dawn his thong for this one.
What age is your brain in?OHNnurse said:Shew you guys are really brutal. First off I simply asked for legal advice. I thought that was what this board was for but obviously I was wrong. This is a board for some people to be judgmental and critical of others. You guys have no idea what my children are like. I did not ask you to judge them Do you recall judging the people responding? You want to hear what you want, and that is not going to happen.
I only ask for legal advice on a situation. I see this was not the place to come for that! I do not want any more "advice" from this board. Then why are you still typing?
There have been a few people who have tried to help but overall I have only received criticism and child rearing advice! Which I did not ask for or need. You got your legal advice. I think it's time for you to point the finger at yourself.
JETXI would strongly suggest you reconsider your career if you plan on being a nurse someday. Your 'sense of logic' simply isn't there.I AM a nurse (RN) and have been for close to 15 years!
Bottom line... you are clearly an ignorant little snot-nosed spoiled brat who now realizes that what you did was stupid. There you go with the name calling again! Just for your information Webster defines ignorant as destitute of knowledge or education. I am sure you are going to use it more in the future. Criticism does seem to be your strong point.
Teenagers do stupid things but that does not make them ignorant or stupid. We really don't know why they do these things. Yes, they have to take responsibility for their actions but they need love, respect, and understanding. Not name calling and judgmental behavior. I hope those of you who are so critical never have any kids or if you do I can only say God help them if they ever make a mistake!
Thanks rmet4nzkx for your comments. I do have an appointment with an attorney. I will ask him about the things that you brought up. Once again, Thanks.
Raisinette She is a teenager. She is irresponsible. It is a huge job to teach & to learn responsibility. This is more important than "self-esteem." Real self-esteem will come from learning to be responsible. This is where, from my reading, she will need your very most serious help, not in excusing her because of her age.
Actions have consequences. Even quick, stupid actions can have serious, expensive consequences. Responsibility in rising to and dealing with them is half the battle.
With all due respect.
Thanks for your comments. I am not excusing what she did. She did a stupid thing but she is not stupid. I am only saying I don't know why she did it only to say that this is typical teenage behavior...Reckless and not always thinking of consequences. Physiologically teenagers think abstractive. This is just the phase of development that their brain is going through during the teen and early 20's. She will have to face the consequences and take responsibility. I do appreciate your honesty.
Yep, and you got accurate and proper legal advice... by both stephenk and myself.OHNnurse said:Shew you guys are really brutal. First off I simply asked for legal advice. I thought that was what this board was for but obviously I was wrong.
Of course we are judgmental.... and critical when necessary. However, if you were able to put your emotions in check for a few minutes and really LOOK at this thread, you will see that the 'problems' ONLY came out when YOU decided to ignore the advice and continue with your posts.This is a board for some people to be judgmental and critical of others.
--PARIDISE-- said:Steph, The girl did not have a licence, so what exactly are you saying? They won't cover an uninsured driver.
I'm interested in your feed back as I have a couple kids that will drive sometime.
I guess it is hard for people to understand the entire situation and the relationship between parents and teens from reading a board. I really don't know where everyone gets that I am making excuses because I am not. It was very stupid. I was just trying to get the point across that teenagers do stupid things but that doesn't make them stupid or ignorant. Mature adults don't resort to name calling! My kids are basically good kids. They both made a mistake and they will have to pay for it. I wish you luck with your situation. I will keep you and your daughter in my prayers!LdiJ said:To the original poster:
Some of the people on this board have a hard time believing in good kids who make bad choices. They assume that either the parents should be blamed for poor parenting, or that the parents are living in fantasyland for believing that their kids are basically good kids.
The question is why you have not already discussed it with your attorney rather than posting on a free forum? It is very likely that you and your daughter will be sued. Only your 18 year old will possibly be covered under the auto insurance. You are still at risk and need legal representation.I will discuss it with my attorney if it comes down to them not covering it.
Thank You for the update.OHNnurse said:My daughter was charged with a felony...Reckless Endangerment. We went to court and all charges were dismissed. No witnesses were called to testify. The Judge stated that the charges should not have been filed to begin with since there was no evidence that my daughter did anything to purposely harm the man. The police officer stated that he did not think she should have been charged.
The man's attorney told our attorney that they still plan to file a civil suit. I am waiting to be served any day now. My oldest daughter's insurance has stated that they WILL provide an attorney. They did mention some type of responsibility law in TN. If the injured is 51% or > responsible for the accident, then he can't recover any loss. I think someone mentioned this.
My daughter is paying us to cover her attorney fees. We are putting the money aside for her to use for college (she doesn't know that we are going to give it back when she goes to college.)
My main reason for posting this update was to show others the outcome so far and how the advise that I was given related to that outcome. As you can see from the previous posts, some people gave very accurate advice and stayed on the subject of giving legal advice (Stephenk's advice was very accurate). While others were giving an opinion and for some reason feel that if someone ask for legal advice they can call them names, criticize, and pass judgment. These types of people should just be ignored. These people thrive on putting people down and do not deserve to be acknowledged. I should have ignored those post. I let my emotions get in the way. I know that my daughters are intelligent young ladies who will make mistakes. I know that they have to aknowledge their mistakes and pay the consequences. If anyone thinks their children will not ever make a stupid mistake then they are in for a rude awakening! While I do agree that it was a stupid mistake I do not agree that this makes her stupid. There is a difference in being stupid and doing something stupid. You can read the previous threads and see where accurate advice was given and where it wasn’t. I do believe that most people that responded to my post were trying to help. I would like to say thank you to those people.
We still may have a civil suit to face. Please remember us in your prayers.