I was assisting in the probate of US citizens, living in Mexico on FM3s'. My fathers girlfriend was also married with a husband in jail and had a second boyfriend who hid in the shadows because he could not provide a roof over their heads, feed her kids, pay for their school and provide all of them with medical care. The other boyfriend provided her with other things apparently. In fact, he also lives in the house paid for by my fathers life insurance in Mexico. I am happy things turned out so well for her, though she was standoffish a bit because my sister hated the fact she was going to inherit from my father and was outright hostile to her. I was indebted to her for making the some of the last years of my fathers life so special. Maybe one day I will tell you about the phone call I received from Mexico about his medical condition crashing and the cross country race my spouse and I tag teamed to Chapala, where I slept two hours then headed back, wiring an oxygen machine to a power inverter of my car battery and racing back to AR to trade off with my wife so she could get him to Cleveland Clinic since he was too ill to fly.