What is the name of your state? New Hampshire
My last post: https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=310738
We went to a temporary hearing on the 3rd and the Judge ordered that my son be evaluated by a psychologist or psychiatrist. Which is fine, except for the fact that some of the points brought up on my ex’s side were completely false and my attorney did not contradict. Grrr!
While in court, my ex lied and said that I refused to take my son to the first Dr. because he was too far away. That was a blatant lie. I talked to that Dr. extensively on the phone and he told me that it was, in his opinion, a parenting issue. He also stated that he thought it would be a good idea for my ex and I to bring my son in together so that my son won’t think we are against each other. The same day I talked to my ex on the phone, asked him to make the appointment, he agreed to and I never heard another word about it.
While at a therapy session with my ex alone (different person, this was my ex’s personal psychologist), I asked why he didn’t make the appointment with that other Dr. He told me that that particular Dr. does not treat children and his psychologist concurred. ANOTHER lie!
I called Dr. #1 the beginning of this week and he most definitely DOES treat children. I made an appointment and am now awaiting my ex’s response through our attorneys since we are supposed to agree on the Dr.
Here is my vent:
A few months ago, my then 8 y.o. son informed me that while on visitation with daddy, they watched Saving Private Ryan. I was quite outraged about this and brought it up with my ex. He said that it was ok because it was the “TV version”. I told him that I didn’t care if it was the “Cartoon version” movies like that are not suitable for a child his age. I have since found out that the “TV version” is the EXACT version as played in the theatre.
Last weekend, my ex had my son for visitation. When I was putting my son to bed on Sunday night, he told me he was really scared. I asked him why and he said he wasn’t supposed to tell me. I told him that he can tell me anything he wants to tell me no matter what anyone else says. So he did! Saturday night, he watched the DVD “DOOM” with his father! If any of you have seen this movie you know how horrific it can be, especially for a child. I’m beside myself. I had to sleep in his room for 2 nights and now he still needs to sleep with the light on!
And he (EX) says our son is the one who needs psychiatric help???? Puleezzzze!
Any suggestions on how I can use this movie thing to my advantage regarding getting a Judge to order my EX to take parenting classes?What is the name of your state?
My last post: https://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=310738
We went to a temporary hearing on the 3rd and the Judge ordered that my son be evaluated by a psychologist or psychiatrist. Which is fine, except for the fact that some of the points brought up on my ex’s side were completely false and my attorney did not contradict. Grrr!
While in court, my ex lied and said that I refused to take my son to the first Dr. because he was too far away. That was a blatant lie. I talked to that Dr. extensively on the phone and he told me that it was, in his opinion, a parenting issue. He also stated that he thought it would be a good idea for my ex and I to bring my son in together so that my son won’t think we are against each other. The same day I talked to my ex on the phone, asked him to make the appointment, he agreed to and I never heard another word about it.
While at a therapy session with my ex alone (different person, this was my ex’s personal psychologist), I asked why he didn’t make the appointment with that other Dr. He told me that that particular Dr. does not treat children and his psychologist concurred. ANOTHER lie!
I called Dr. #1 the beginning of this week and he most definitely DOES treat children. I made an appointment and am now awaiting my ex’s response through our attorneys since we are supposed to agree on the Dr.
Here is my vent:
A few months ago, my then 8 y.o. son informed me that while on visitation with daddy, they watched Saving Private Ryan. I was quite outraged about this and brought it up with my ex. He said that it was ok because it was the “TV version”. I told him that I didn’t care if it was the “Cartoon version” movies like that are not suitable for a child his age. I have since found out that the “TV version” is the EXACT version as played in the theatre.
Last weekend, my ex had my son for visitation. When I was putting my son to bed on Sunday night, he told me he was really scared. I asked him why and he said he wasn’t supposed to tell me. I told him that he can tell me anything he wants to tell me no matter what anyone else says. So he did! Saturday night, he watched the DVD “DOOM” with his father! If any of you have seen this movie you know how horrific it can be, especially for a child. I’m beside myself. I had to sleep in his room for 2 nights and now he still needs to sleep with the light on!
And he (EX) says our son is the one who needs psychiatric help???? Puleezzzze!
Any suggestions on how I can use this movie thing to my advantage regarding getting a Judge to order my EX to take parenting classes?What is the name of your state?