Visitation/custody violation California

[Zigner]

I wasn't trying to move up the court date or anything, I just wanted to have my daughter like I am legally allowed to and stop him from alienating her from me and possibly brainwashing her. She's only 3 but super smart and remembers everything. This guy is having a grand old time causing so much disruption and heartache to my life and it should be bright to the courts attention that he's braking the law and all I'm trying to do is live my life happily without him and be civil with him despite his malicious behavior. I'm not wasting anyones time, he is the one doing that. I'm sure if your child was kept from you for no reason you would fight to have your child back, not just simply wait for the next court date which is two and a half months out.

Again, what was the emergency?

 

[Ohiogal]

I wasn't trying to move up the court date or anything, I just wanted to have my daughter like I am legally allowed to and stop him from alienating her from me and possibly brainwashing her. She's only 3 but super smart and remembers everything. This guy is having a grand old time causing so much disruption and heartache to my life and it should be bright to the courts attention that he's braking the law and all I'm trying to do is live my life happily without him and be civil with him despite his malicious behavior. I'm not wasting anyones time, he is the one doing that. I'm sure if your child was kept from you for no reason you would fight to have your child back, not just simply wait for the next court date which is two and a half months out.

So you have your child now, right?

 

[avocado]

Are you just one of those people who always want to have the last word? Or are you one of those people with no kids who sit at their computer all day on a site that people are asking for genuine advice but you want to put your two cents in acting like nothing is important to the parson seeking advice? Do you have a control issue? Or do you feel that much better by trying to pot others down? The emergency is in my last post. And if you don't get that, then you obviously wouldn't ever fight for your child as I am doing for mine. You are probably the same type of person my ex is if you don't see the urgency in my situation. I'm going through an insane amount of unnecessary drama right now and don't need to prove I love and protect my child to someone so rude and unimportant anymore.

 

[avocado]

Ohiogal, not yet because my week to have her is next week on Monday. He has to give her to me and I'm going to be do happy when I finally get her it's been way too long

 

[Ohiogal]

Ohiogal, not yet because my week to have her is next week on Monday. He has to give her to me and I'm going to be do happy when I finally get her it's been way too long

And if he doesn't give her to you? Because he might not. If the judge thought it was an emergency, the judge would have ordered that YOU IMMEDIATELY got your child. The judge would have ordered that the child be transported to you that day and you would begin your week. So don't count this as a win when you haven't won anything.

 

[Ohiogal]

Are you just one of those people who always want to have the last word? Or are you one of those people with no kids who sit at their computer all day on a site that people are asking for genuine advice but you want to put your two cents in acting like nothing is important to the parson seeking advice? Do you have a control issue? Or do you feel that much better by trying to pot others down? The emergency is in my last post. And if you don't get that, then you obviously wouldn't ever fight for your child as I am doing for mine. You are probably the same type of person my ex is if you don't see the urgency in my situation. I'm going through an insane amount of unnecessary drama right now and don't need to prove I love and protect my child to someone so rude and unimportant anymore.

Here is the thing: the JUDGE didn't see this as an emergency. If the JUDGE had seen this as an emergency, you would have your child with you today to continue through next week. You are missing that very vital point. You might want to apologize to Zigner because he was correct. This was NOT an emergency. This was NOT a situation in which the judge thought it was an emergency. This was a hearing that placated you. You feel like you won but you won nothing.

 

[Zigner]

I've been personally involved in custody cases for 3 my children (full custody of all) and indirectly involved in one relating to my grandchild. I am somewhat familiar with this subject...and I'm in California to boot!

 

[Silverplum]

Are you just one of those people who always want to have the last word? Or are you one of those people with no kids who sit at their computer all day on a site that people are asking for genuine advice but you want to put your two cents in acting like nothing is important to the parson seeking advice? Do you have a control issue? Or do you feel that much better by trying to pot others down? The emergency is in my last post. And if you don't get that, then you obviously wouldn't ever fight for your child as I am doing for mine. You are probably the same type of person my ex is if you don't see the urgency in my situation. I'm going through an insane amount of unnecessary drama right now and don't need to prove I love and protect my child to someone so rude and unimportant anymore.

Have a nice day.

 

[avocados2]

I was told by CPS, and two different police stations (Cops) and 4 lawyers to file an ex parte. it's called an emergency hearing but my ex BREAKING THE LAW warrants the ex parte. I care about my daughter, who is impressionable at her age right now, I care about her safety and her future. I want to protect her and I want to see my daughter! I don't understand how you people don't see this as important. He is trying to keep her from me until January, possibly longer!! I guess it's because I'm a darn good mom that I care this much and am willing to go to the end of the earth for my child. Does it make you two feel better that you deliberately try to hurt others who are going through bs they don't deserve? looks like it. I don't need to respond to your narrow minded opinions anymore. I got good advice from the cops and CPS and the lawyers. I did what I had a right to do. I did the right thing.

 

[avocados2]

Have a nice day.

You as well Silverplum

 

[Ohiogal]

I was told by CPS, and two different police stations (Cops) and 4 lawyers to file an ex parte. it's called an emergency hearing but my ex BREAKING THE LAW warrants the ex parte. I care about my daughter, who is impressionable at her age right now, I care about her safety and her future. I want to protect her and I want to see my daughter! I don't understand how you people don't see this as important. He is trying to keep her from me until January, possibly longer!! I guess it's because I'm a darn good mom that I care this much and am willing to go to the end of the earth for my child. Does it make you two feel better that you deliberately try to hurt others who are going through bs they don't deserve? looks like it. I don't need to respond to your narrow minded opinions anymore. I got good advice from the cops and CPS and the lawyers. I did what I had a right to do. I did the right thing.

You don't understand. No one is doubting you love your daughter. That doesn't make this an emergency. An emergency is for when the child is in harm's way. POlice officers and social workers (CPS) are not attorneys. IF the judge did not order you to get your child immediately, the judge did not see this as an emergency. That is all that is being said. No one is saying you screwed up. We are trying to educate you. Apparently, that may be in vain.

 

[Silverplum]

You as well Silverplum

You're new, you don't know, that's okay, I'll explain:

When you get nasty with the nice volunteers, some of us will simply blow you off by telling you to "have a nice day."