Want to take grandkids on cruise

[Sandy53]

You said you were not going to be judgmental. Yet you seem to be by automatically concluding that he was abusing your daughter.

when I see that her arm is bandaged and he is constantly breaking her phone I will be a little judgemental.

Not really. Because you would need BOTH parents' permission to take the children out of the country without their parents.

if we don't then we have a plow we can sell to recoup our losses.

And if the children's father requests their passports your husband better cough them up.
I don't think he even cares about that.

Okay. That is what the court order stated about it? Apparently your daughter doesn't believe in the abuse or she wouldn't have done the things she did.
Don't know what that means. .

SHE is responsible for the debt that she is in. You NEED to understand that your daughter is an adult. She is responsible for her own credit.

That is right and she is taking care of it even though it was her husband that put them there ! Like father/mother like son. Not a pot to psst ... in . But the house is in her name and her fathers and my husband refuses to be in debt ! We have not had any credit problems in the 35 years we have been married and don't plan to be either. Her husband is not on the deed .Two years ago my husband agreed to let them consoldate to pay off bills and the bills are back to what they were because son in law doesn't know how to handle money. All bills and credit cards are in my daughters name because his credit is so bad. Today she called to have him removed from him charging on her cards.

I never expected this to happen but I can only sit back and give my daughter and grandkids the support they need.

 

[Ohiogal]

That is right and she is taking care of it even though it was her husband that put them there ! Like father/mother like son. Not a pot to psst ... in . But the house is in her name and her fathers and my husband refuses to be in debt ! We have not had any credit problems in the 35 years we have been married and don't plan to be either. Her husband is not on the deed .Two years ago my husband agreed to let them consoldate to pay off bills and the bills are back to what they were because son in law doesn't know how to handle money. All bills and credit cards are in my daughters name because his credit is so bad. Today she called to have him removed from him charging on her cards.

I never expected this to happen but I can only sit back and give my daughter and grandkids the support they need.

Then quite frankly if hubby is NOT on the deed then it is the fault of the people on the deed. As the bank won't give a mortgage to someone who is NOT on the deed. Hence your husband and your daughter are to blame for her debt. As for like father/mother like son -- that is your grandchildren's FAMILY you are talking about. Nice work.

As for being judgmental -- you just proved yourself a liar because you told him you wouldn't be judgmental and yet you are here doing that. Oh well.