What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?AZ
My husband has sporatically been violent in the past.(Smashed a computer, punched me) He has always spanked the kids. But this fall he attacked our oldest son(17) from behind and slammed him(his head) repeatedly into the refrigerator. My son was getting a drink of water and getting ready to leave with my husband for school. I had to physically stop him and made him leave. He left for 5 days then wanted to come back. I told him he needed to get counseling as did I for putting up with him and also our son might need counselling too.
He has now filed for divorce, but he wants to visit the kids. I did not file a police report when he attacked our son. It was two months ago. Our son has made a dramatic personality change for the better since he left, more confident and outgoing. I am going to see a lawyer next week. SHould I let him visit the kids? He particularly wants to see our oldest son, I don't really want him to. Do I file a police report now? Can he see the kids? They are all over 12. Does how they feel about it matter. One is ok seeing him two are not.
My husband has sporatically been violent in the past.(Smashed a computer, punched me) He has always spanked the kids. But this fall he attacked our oldest son(17) from behind and slammed him(his head) repeatedly into the refrigerator. My son was getting a drink of water and getting ready to leave with my husband for school. I had to physically stop him and made him leave. He left for 5 days then wanted to come back. I told him he needed to get counseling as did I for putting up with him and also our son might need counselling too.
He has now filed for divorce, but he wants to visit the kids. I did not file a police report when he attacked our son. It was two months ago. Our son has made a dramatic personality change for the better since he left, more confident and outgoing. I am going to see a lawyer next week. SHould I let him visit the kids? He particularly wants to see our oldest son, I don't really want him to. Do I file a police report now? Can he see the kids? They are all over 12. Does how they feel about it matter. One is ok seeing him two are not.