To the OP- you have been told, by everyone in this thread, that no matter what happens.. no matter what goes on in the divorce proceedings... no matter whether an 'agreeable' plan between the two of you happens... no matter whether she has a 'plan' for her future or not... the divorce proceedings can continue and conclude.
Everyone understands your thoughts are with the concerns of the children... and yes, emotion is a fact of life.. but this is a LEGAL forum, dealing with facts of law. Emotion is what you, and your wife, bring to the process- but have no impact on the legal process.
If neither of you come to an agreement- the divorce will still be allowed final. If you come to an agreement- the divorce will be final and she has no obligation to follow through on the agreement.. except when it comes to CS.
You are looking for someone, anyone, to agree with you and your perspective on what you 'believe' or 'think you have found out' (citing a source and location to review is usually considered good netiquette). That is not going to happen here. You are pleading your argument from an emotional standpoint (with concerns for the children) trying to get the answer you wish to hear.... unless an agreeable visitation is made, then the divorce proceedings will stall. This is not the case, this will not be the case and you are not going to get that answer.
What do you think is more likely...
Your argument, and the information you have found out (from a lawyer who "seemed to feel"), is correct-
or multiple strangers on a legal forum, all with differing backgrounds, experiences and levels of knowledge, all come to the same conclusion are?
Either way- be sure to return upon conclusion of the proceedings to update this thread.. it could help someone who finds themselves in your situation. And, after all, that is what this forum is for.. collective knowledge to helping people.... despite the injection of 'emotion' (hey, we're only human
)
Everyone understands your thoughts are with the concerns of the children... and yes, emotion is a fact of life.. but this is a LEGAL forum, dealing with facts of law. Emotion is what you, and your wife, bring to the process- but have no impact on the legal process.
If neither of you come to an agreement- the divorce will still be allowed final. If you come to an agreement- the divorce will be final and she has no obligation to follow through on the agreement.. except when it comes to CS.
You are looking for someone, anyone, to agree with you and your perspective on what you 'believe' or 'think you have found out' (citing a source and location to review is usually considered good netiquette). That is not going to happen here. You are pleading your argument from an emotional standpoint (with concerns for the children) trying to get the answer you wish to hear.... unless an agreeable visitation is made, then the divorce proceedings will stall. This is not the case, this will not be the case and you are not going to get that answer.
What do you think is more likely...
Your argument, and the information you have found out (from a lawyer who "seemed to feel"), is correct-
or multiple strangers on a legal forum, all with differing backgrounds, experiences and levels of knowledge, all come to the same conclusion are?
Either way- be sure to return upon conclusion of the proceedings to update this thread.. it could help someone who finds themselves in your situation. And, after all, that is what this forum is for.. collective knowledge to helping people.... despite the injection of 'emotion' (hey, we're only human
)