will i loss

[glee]

What is the name of your state?CA

My son is 3 and he seeing his father in another state about 30% a the time. His father is asking court to have his son a bout 45% a the time.

I lyed in mediation saying that our son hasing sycological issues, even thout I now he is not. Iam scared for him to spend more time with his father.

Hi father took me to court for not lettimg them talk the phone and for talking bad about his father and new wife in front of our baby.

I requested a custody evaluation in mediation when I said our son was having psychological issues.

I am illegal and I tried to marry a citizen to stay in the country. My son's father found out and reported me. I have been living illegally for 16 years with my family. My father lives with us and he has had 4 DWIs.


I share one bedrroom with my two children (from different fathers) I have a high school diploma and I do not make very much money. My son's father is a very well educated and makes a lot of money and so does his wife. They have a new home and my son has his own room and bathroom there. I just found out this.

I am scared that I might lose custody.

 

[Zephyr]

no one can tell you what will happen, but dad's chances are good, especially if he can prove you are trying to alienate him from the child

 

[Neal1421]

What is the name of your state?CA

My son is 3 and he seeing his father in another state about 30% a the time. His father is asking court to have his son a bout 45% a the time.

I lyed in mediation saying that our son hasing sycological issues, even thout I now he is not. Iam scared for him to spend more time with his father.

Hi father took me to court for not lettimg them talk the phone and for talking bad about his father and new wife in front of our baby.

I requested a custody evaluation in mediation when I said our son was having psychological issues.

I am illegal and I tried to marry a citizen to stay in the country. My son's father found out and reported me. I have been living illegally for 16 years with my family. My father lives with us and he has had 4 DWIs.


I share one bedrroom with my two children (from different fathers) I have a high school diploma and I do not make very much money. My son's father is a very well educated and makes a lot of money and so does his wife. They have a new home and my son has his own room and bathroom there. I just found out this.

I am scared that I might lose custody.

He's only asking for 45% custody. Yes, he will more than likely get it especially with your track record of lies.

 

[Mbarr77]

What is the name of your state?CA

My son is 3 and he seeing his father in another state about 30% a the time. His father is asking court to have his son a bout 45% a the time.

I lyed in mediation saying that our son hasing sycological issues, even thout I now he is not. Iam scared for him to spend more time with his father.

Hi father took me to court for not lettimg them talk the phone and for talking bad about his father and new wife in front of our baby.

I requested a custody evaluation in mediation when I said our son was having psychological issues.

I am illegal and I tried to marry a citizen to stay in the country. My son's father found out and reported me. I have been living illegally for 16 years with my family. My father lives with us and he has had 4 DWIs.


I share one bedrroom with my two children (from different fathers) I have a high school diploma and I do not make very much money. My son's father is a very well educated and makes a lot of money and so does his wife. They have a new home and my son has his own room and bathroom there. I just found out this.

I am scared that I might lose custody.

You say that you are scared for them to spend more time with him, but do not give detail as to why? Are you truly scared for a valid reason, or you just do not want them to? Also, as already advised dad can stand good chances especially if he can prove you knowingly lied to keep the kids from him.

 

[glee]

I afraid that he can try take my son more later. Alsso if he has our son more then he doesn't have to pay as much child support. I need that money.

 

[Zephyr]

I afraid that he can try take my son more later. Alsso if he has our son more then he doesn't have to pay as much child support. I need that money.

that money is for half of what it should take to support the child, you are supposed to supply the other half of the child's support and the support for yourself.

this post can't be genuine....

 

[Neal1421]

I afraid that he can try take my son more later. Alsso if he has our son more then he doesn't have to pay as much child support. I need that money.

The child deserves the right to know and spend time with his father. Also, you shouldn't be so dependant on the support money for survival. Look at it this way, if he takes the child more that frees up more time for you to get a (or another) job for more income.

 

[Mbarr77]

I afraid that he can try take my son more later. Alsso if he has our son more then he doesn't have to pay as much child support. I need that money.

Okay, so basically you really are not concerned that it may be best for your son to spend more time with his father, you are just worried about the money aspect? In that case, I say I HOPE the father does get more time with his child!

 

[Neal1421]

that money is for half of what it should take to support the child, you are supposed to supply the other half of the child's support and the support for yourself.

this post can't be genuine....

That's what I originally thought but I was trying to give her the benefit of the doubt.

 

[Mbarr77]

that money is for half of what it should take to support the child, you are supposed to supply the other half of the child's support and the support for yourself.

this post can't be genuine....

I was thinking the same...because surely a poster would not come on here and ADMIT they do not want the childs father to not see them because of money...

 

[Neal1421]

I was thinking the same...because surely a poster would not come on here and ADMIT they do not want the childs father to not see them because of money...

I don't know, I've seen quite a few come here saying that.

 

[glee]

The money isnot my largest concerne here. If I dont have son as much I wno't buy as much things for him.

But, waht about the evalation? Is it bad if I only have one bedrroom in my house for me and my two sons and only high shcool? His father has a nice house, lots of money and education.

 

[Mbarr77]

That's what I originally thought but I was trying to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Well, under the alimony board she posted that she is illegal citizen whom the father reported, and that she has her father living with her that has FOUR DWI's. You are lucky the father has not tried to go for more than just more visitation!!!

 

[glee]

I'm not sayying I don't want him to see the father. I just don't know what I wll do without the money if he sees him more. But the father didn't ask to change child support in court. So, iguess It's not a big deal right now.

 

[glee]

Yes Iam illegal. I am just tryying to make a better life for my families.