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[Mbarr77]

I'm not sayying I don't want him to see the father. I just don't know what I wll do without the money if he sees him more. But the father didn't ask to change child support in court. So, iguess It's not a big deal right now.

Your child is not your meal ticket! If you need the money that bad, and dad is that well off why not let him see the child 50/50 and then YOU can work for your extra money. Get a second job, instead of punishing your child by not being able to see his daddy!!

 

[Neal1421]

I'm not sayying I don't want him to see the father. I just don't know what I wll do without the money if he sees him more. But the father didn't ask to change child support in court. So, iguess It's not a big deal right now.

Sweetheart you just contradicted yourself. Your previous post said that it wasn't about the money. Make up your mind.

 

[glee]

Isn't it bad of him for reporting me for being here illegal? He will lok bad for that one. I hav ehad my son with me for three yars now except for the time his father had him. They usully don't change that because I've given him stables life.

 

[Neal1421]

Ok. Lost cause. Next...

 

[glee]

THe money isn't my only concerned. Maybe my son can be cunfused if he has more time with his dad. He is calling my new boyfriend daddy. I think him spending more time with his dad is confusing him to callm y boyfriend daddy.

 

[Neal1421]

Well, he shouldn't be calling your new boyfriend daddy. That's where the confusion lies.

 

[Mbarr77]

THe money isn't my only concerned. Maybe my son can be cunfused if he has more time with his dad. He is calling my new boyfriend daddy. I think him spending more time with his dad is confusing him to callm y boyfriend daddy.

You obviously do not want LEGAL advice..You want someone here to tell you that you are right when you are clearly wrong! Sorry, my opinion! No, it was not wrong for him to report you as illegal, being that you are here ILLEGALLY! Your son needs his dad, and he can probably tell that you do not want him to see his dad...You are the one causing your child the confusion!

 

[Mbarr77]

THe money isn't my only concerned. Maybe my son can be cunfused if he has more time with his dad. He is calling my new boyfriend daddy. I think him spending more time with his dad is confusing him to callm y boyfriend daddy.

If the money was not your only concern, you would have never brought it up in the first place. Good luck, and I hope your ex is allowed to see more of his son.

 

[glee]

Should I continue with the evalution or not? The mediateor said it was normal for my son to call boyfriend daddy.

 

[Mbarr77]

Should I continue with the evalution or not? The mediateor said it was normal for my son to call boyfriend daddy.

Ask a lawyer!

 

[Neal1421]

Should I continue with the evalution or not? The mediateor said it was normal for my son to call boyfriend daddy.

Normal and right are two separate issues. Yes, a 3 year old will call a man daddy that he sees on a regular basis daddy if that's what his mother tells him to do.

I seriously doubt that the mediator would condone this behavior.

 

[Mbarr77]

Normal and right are two separate issues. Yes, a 3 year old will call a man daddy that he sees on a regular basis daddy if that's what his mother tells him to do.

I seriously doubt that the mediator would condone this behavior.

My mediator/evaluator made it very clear to me that until me and my boyfriend were married they would not even condone overnight visits, and that my child already has a father and THAT is who they call daddy.

 

[glee]

yah, my son's father tried to get the mediateor to say that I dn't need to stay with my boyfriend. He didn't tell me I didn't have to do that thout. Sometimes my boygriend stays in our room at my home and sometimes I take my children to his apartment. I guess our mediateor was different. Me and my boyfriend are both married with other people and that wasn't a problem either. Well my arriage was fake just to get my papers and he is divorceing but hes still married right now.

 

[Mbarr77]

yah, my son's father tried to get the mediateor to say that I dn't need to stay with my boyfriend. He didn't tell me I didn't have to do that thout. Sometimes my boygriend stays in our room at my home and sometimes I take my children to his apartment. I guess our mediateor was different. Me and my boyfriend are both married with other people and that wasn't a problem either. Well my arriage was fake just to get my papers and he is divorceing but hes still married right now.

Okay, I really believe now this cannot be a true post!! NO, NO, NO mediator is going to say it is okay for a child to sleep with you and your boyfriend in your room with you while you are both still married. Good luck, not wasting my time anymore on this post.

 

[NotSoNew]

this is SO fake!