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gettingnervous
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What is the name of your state? wi
will is/was known to have exsisted but has not been filed. over a year and a half has gone by since our loss of our mom and father in law side steps questions until no one asks anymore
as far as we know mom's will left all to father in law. no one has seen the will though. mom's estate was over 200.000.00 without personal belongings. do decendants get a copy or invite to the reading of the will even if we don't receive anything? as far as we know there has not been a formal reading of the will. what should we expect?
we are concerned about land worth over 650,000.00. what happens if FIL sells it? is was in both their names.
FIL has been vague regarding the settling of mom's estate and acts like he is the only one grieving and entitled to everything mom left behind. i suspect he is afraid if we are paid something, he will lose a carrot to dangle and keep us all in his company. my wife is afraid he will remarry and everything my mom worked for will be left to FIL's new spouse and my siblings and i and my kids will never see anything. we know our mom would not want that but we also do not want a legal and emotional battle.
please advise. is there any hope? we would be happy with a college fund for our children even though we live pay check to paycheck.
will is/was known to have exsisted but has not been filed. over a year and a half has gone by since our loss of our mom and father in law side steps questions until no one asks anymore
as far as we know mom's will left all to father in law. no one has seen the will though. mom's estate was over 200.000.00 without personal belongings. do decendants get a copy or invite to the reading of the will even if we don't receive anything? as far as we know there has not been a formal reading of the will. what should we expect?
we are concerned about land worth over 650,000.00. what happens if FIL sells it? is was in both their names.
FIL has been vague regarding the settling of mom's estate and acts like he is the only one grieving and entitled to everything mom left behind. i suspect he is afraid if we are paid something, he will lose a carrot to dangle and keep us all in his company. my wife is afraid he will remarry and everything my mom worked for will be left to FIL's new spouse and my siblings and i and my kids will never see anything. we know our mom would not want that but we also do not want a legal and emotional battle.
please advise. is there any hope? we would be happy with a college fund for our children even though we live pay check to paycheck.