will this stop wage garnishment?

[stealth2]

She lives with a man who has his own mortgage, pays all the bills, pays her cell phone...

And you live with a woman who does the same for you. So be careful where you point fingers.

I do hope your wife has a very careful think about this scheme of yours. Should your marriage fail, she's looking at being the NCP. Not sure I'd want my kid living with someone who thinks like you. But then again - she picked you, just as you picked the mother of your other child.

 

[CourtClerk]

Shhh...guys. Remember. He's going to quit his job and then the garnishments will stop. Maybe in the interim, when they realize that the money isn't coming back via garnishment, someone at CSE will get smart and look for the income (because we all know sending in a check isn't all that reliable). Then.... they will find the income (that is not under the table) that is $1000 more than the imputed income and voila! an upward modification!!!! with a new imputed income because if dad is working part time at $1000 more, then he is obviously under employing himself.

Wifey can pay that amont.

See, I did that when I used to work for CSSD.

 

[jjohn]

The questions may have been legal but the idea behind them is not. YOU CANNOT WORK and NOT tell CSE you are working. That is a crime in most states and you can find yourself facing criminal charges.



And when you quit your income will be imputed minimally at what you were earning at the time you voluntarily walked off the job.



Your attitude sucks. And you are NOT doing what is asked of you legally if you decide to work and NOT inform CSE.



No. Just those who have an attitude likes yours.



Only those who come on here griping about having to pay child support. Which you did.


Note the first sentence in this paragraph. Then note what you said CS buys. Ecstacy? Oh yeah. You care about your child. I am not convinced. Most people who know that mom is using illegaly drugs DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT when the child they profess to care about is in that home. What the hell have you done?



How do you know that she isn't using boyfriend's money? How did you perform a trace on the number legally?

I will say this however, you are bitter as evidenced by your other posts on here and you are showing NO CARING for your child.

What have I done about the fact my ex is on extacy? Lets see I called protective services 3 times. Want to know what they said about their investigation. "A woman using drugs doesn't always make her a bad mother. We checked her out and her home was in order and your son had food". Could I take her to court to try to prove she's a drug addict. Yeah. Is anyone going to believe me since she has no convictions. Nope.

 

[MrsK]

I said it wasn't under the table. Thanks for not paying attention to my thread and slamming me for something that you apparently mis read.

Yes i did have a job when my wages were calculated. The same job i'm quitting.

Yes I know cs is "supposed" to go for the child but trust me it's not.

No I didn't want to have children with this person. No I did not think she was mommy material. That's a really stupid statement actually. If you ask most single men who decide to "get laid" over half of the women they sleep with aren't mommy mateial. Just an ex gf who apparently still had feelings for me. And no I didn't know she was cheating on someone when we did the do. But that doesn't matter i'm paying for the next 15 years anyway. yay!

Trust me OP, let it go that the support may or may not go to the child. Generally the CP never has to account for the money, and thats life, dont drive yourself crazy. Pay your support & you've done your part & thats that.

& its not your fault that she's loose. But it is your kid, and so you gotta go according to the law. No matter how unfair it seems, living your life in a manner which would let you avoid support isnt worth it (not saying you are trying to dodge support, just that if you WANTED to dodge support, you'd have to live a ****ty life). Move on & try not to be bitter no matter how hard it is.

 

[RockyTop TN]

jjohn

Have you tried to sit down and discuss your concern with her "ecstasy" use while being the custodial parent to your child? Apparently, if DHS has been to her home and found it in good order with food provided for the child, she is providing for the needs of the child. Surely if she has a drug problem that in itself is a medical condition if she is addicted to it. Maybe if you talked to her to smooth things over instead of trying to get the child out of her care. She obviously had problems. Does this response sound familiar to the advice you were handing out to me. It's hard to get through to people with drug problems, do you not think so?

As far as you quiting your job and letting your new girlfriend or wife pay the support, as to avoid being garnished, you should be ashamed of yourself. I think you came to the wrong place to ask how to avoid your obligation. The good people on here for the most part, give advice with the children's best interest in mind. You also were very inconsistent throughout your posts. When you try to cheat the system to your advantage you are all but stealing from your own child.

Keep your job or take the new one part-time for more money, but report the increase to the CS office, take care of that baby before your own needs or wants. That's not advice that is an opinion from someone who has always put their kids needs and wants before their own.

 

[Accountable]

no i plan on paying the support. however i feel i shouldn't have to since she's moved in with some guy that supports her and her child but that's the system. I have a mortgage and two families to keep up. i guess the state wants me to pay for two sets of manicures a month? anyway jail for not paying 125.00? That seems harsh. So will they automatically do an investigation if i notify them of a change?

HER child? I thought you said that the paternity test confirmed this was YOUR child, too.

I only have one question for you, Mr. Wonderful, are you exercising visitation with this child of YOURS?